First of all, thank you from all My well wishers that have sent Me get-well cards and such during My bought with this nasty flu that's going around. I started to feel ill around Friday last week and exactly now one week later, I am actually back to My old self and only a linger cough and a VERY sexy voice that is only going to stick around for the next few days... I hope!
Although I have been chatting online with some of My fans, I recently was approached with a question that I felt was a legitimate one that I should answer here.
"Why do you do this for money if You enjoy it so much?"
Well, My first sarcastic answer would be because "I Can!", but I am sure that that's not what you are looking for and I do believe it is a viable question that I can put some perspective to.
My love for this lifestyle comes very easily and very naturally. Growing up as a military brat, learning a chain of command (no pun intended) and learning from those in command provided Me with the knowledge that even human being's need a pecking order. Most Dominates will come to the conclusion that they will NEVER bottom to anyone, but what they don't realize is that they already have and probably still do to a certain extent. If they are employed, have parents, or have served in the Armed Forces they have been under someone's control.
Me, I feel I provide a service that is unique in its own right. Even though I have owned and released My share of submissives in the past years, I have a catch and release policy. My training tactics, theory and most of all My "Maternal" side is fed by those who come to Me wishing to learn the aspects of it all before finding someone more permanent. This gives them the ability to feel more confident in their position as a sub or as a slave in order to approach someone of caliber. I only charge for My services just as any other 'therapist', 'public service worker' or white-collar worker.
My fees are nominal and for a lack of better term, I do believe that it separates the men, from the wankers.
I am quite serious about what I do, and teach the dos, the don'ts and what to watch for. My clients have come to me from all walks of life. From Lesbian women afraid to approach another Lady or a CEO who just wants that fantasy fulfilled after a long hard week. Either way, safety is a number one concern for Me in this lifestyle, and if all you go away with from reading My articles, My interviews and My theories, ethics and moral issues is that you will know how to protect yourself from the abusive natured Dominates that seem to be highlighted by media exposé’s then I feel I have provided a service and kept another from being victimized by what society sea’s as a taboo lifestyle.
So with that, I think that explains My reasoning for getting paid for what I so love to do. If I were in a formal classroom teaching, I would hope that My students would find their fee's worthwhile.
