what men should know
No always means No!! If you can't use your big head, we can't guarantee to be nice to your little one!! Just an FYI is all!!
If we tell you we don't like something please DON"T do it! Your not going to make us like it no matter how many times you try…you will only turn us off! If you make me cold I am not putting out!
When kissing my neck or earlobes do it lightly, a little tongue is ok as long as I don't feel like I showered when your done! I don't know any female that likes this…GROSS!
Dry humping is NEVER ok!! EVER!! It is kind of creepy and in some weird way reminds us of a pedophile!
Begging is pathetic! No woman I know will give it up when you beg!
We are not porn stars, well at least most of us, so don't talk to us like we are! Now it's not that we mind the dirty talk but when you make it sound like we are in a movie is when it becomes a bit freaky!
If we are breathing heavy or moaning you are doing something right! Keep it up!
Everyone can appreciate a new position but please keep in mind we are not Gumby and our bodies just like yours can only bend so far!
When we actually are having sex remember to pace yourself, it is not a race to see who can finish first! You will win, and you will also not get it again!!
All women give clues as to what we really want in a relationship, even though we may not verbally tell you. We are hoping we picked a man smart enough to figure them out!
Don't be offended when we need alone time, it is our way of refueling and often when we don't get it we can get really burned out! If that happens don't ask why I am being a bitch, I will just think your stupid!
Learn when to keep your mouth shut! I know this sounds harsh but there are times when you men need to learn the best thing you can do is zip your lips and let us have out space! Hounding will only get you an outcome you may not like!
If you constantly bring up things from the past it means you are not over it, and most likely means you never will be…just something to think about!
During a fight things are heated and things are said that are often hurtful and once those words are out in the open they can never be taken back, try and remember to think before you speak! Us women may forgive you, but we will never forget!
The time you spend with us is important! Show us that is important to you as well, don't act as though you have somewhere else to be or that you would rather be doing something else, we notice!!
Treating sex as though it is something we owe to you will only lead to NO sex!!
Don't place conditions on your relationship…if you want to be in control of someone or something get a damn dog!!
If you ask us a question and we answer honestly, don't sit and argue because you don't like the answer…it is frustrating and pisses us off!
