Trace If U dont like my fluff STAY OFF m...'s blog: "Trace's Thoughts for the day"

Thing were going well, I put everything to rest and was over it all. I mean I was stil watchin my back, but I was over all the anger I felt. to use a well hated line "I am OVER IT " Things were going well for the past couple of weeks. But bam in 1 day someone had to ruin it, I am not sure who it was, but I actaully and honestly feel bad for the girl, Someone is playing a dirty game and not only tryin to hurt her , but dragging me and others down too. The drama is way to much and the bs is crazy. Ive never wanted anyone to get hurt I always just wanted all the crap to end and we could all just move on. I am a pretty forgiving person for the most part, I used my blogs to vent cause I felt as I was running into a brick wall, they were never meant to hurt anyone , Just one person typin thier feelings down at the time. I honestly hope eveything works out for the best for that girl and I did cover her butt as much as I could with the truth. I made sure it was known that some of the stuff that was brought up was not true I wont lie for her but I wont let the lies hurt her or any one else either. I honestly just wish everything would go back to they way thing were over a year ago when it was a fun place to work.

What a day!! I was cleaning the yard today, just tryin to get things done, and when I went into the garage, I seen an alligator, At first I thought it was hubby tryin to play a trick on me cause it didnt move, and my mother has a fake one, so I didnt even think about it until I moved the lawn mower and it moved, OMG I freaked out yelling OMG theres an alligator in the garage. No one would come an help me I sent the kids to get my hubby, and that bastard wouldnt even come to help either, So I grabbed my cell phone and called 911. Poor 911 operator I am yelling while hyperventalting theres an alligator in my garage, I swear I had to say it 4 times before she understood what I said. Finially my brother in law came to see what I was yelling about, he believe i was flippin out over a kids toy, He kept saying Trace I dont see any thing , I yelled move stuff, all of a sudden he yells omg there is an alligator in here, By this time my hubby and neighbor come from the other side of the house. and they both look and they finially believed me. My husband lassoed it and pulled it out of the garage. We had a 35 inch ( just under 3 foot ) alligator in the baby pool waiting for someone to come and get him. We live in North west Ohio, after 4 cops cars and a person from the Blade ( local paper) and half the nieghborhood, people from the wildlife rescue came and got our gator.

well another day has been and gone, and things are getting easier. When you finially turn the tables on someone who is trying to bring you down and you don't even have to play dirty to get there. Its a great feeling when you can take a bad situation and turn it into a good one with out stooping to thier level. They say laughter makes everything better, and you know what ? I agree. I turned it all into a joke, and with out even trying people are chattin away about how dumb the other person was for even tryin to start issues. Thanks everyone for the advice it did help, I am just a take it on kind of girl, But I played my cards right this time. looked at the whole picture and made notes, collected evidence, and then prevaled at this time. I am sure its not over yet but now I am ready and will continue to keep what I am doing. stay proffesional at work and blog on here lol . thanks for readin.

gotta Love how some people think that their way of thinking is always right, and try to push thier opionions off on others, and even at times try to manipulate others to think the same way You know the saying Opionions are the like assholes , everyones got one ;I honestly believe everyone is intitled to thier own opionion, and should be allowed to express it when ever they feel the need, But when you try to push your thoughts and ideas onto others, and try to manipulate others and also use them to do something that you are afraid to do yourself, is utter BS I guess why I posted my mood as amused right now is because , I am going throught this situation right now, and its begging to back fire on the person who is doing it. Trying to manipulate others into believeing what you believe, and using them to do what you wanna do is wrong no matter how you try to spin it. I truly beleve if you wanna be heard , then you need to speak for yourself, and go to the source, dont play games and be dirty, use people that truly dont wanna be part of it but are afraid of the outcome if they dont do what you tell them and use other peoples names to try to push the issue. We live in die in a big world, but when you try to play dirty and use people to do it for ya the world becomes a smaller place and eventually you end up alone. Always remember that people may play your game at first but when it comes down to it they dont wanna be dirty and they will wash up, the truth always comes out in the end, and you may be the one with mudd on your face. The truth shall set you free !! but the wrath you get for the lies, will always be the payment.

Well today went very well, I think I actually got my point acrossed to one manger ( the one that was closly involved) I finally got her to admit that there was a problem and it was not on my end. I actually heard her talking to the CEO and telling him that some one was causing problems for no reason, and they needed to look in to things a bit more. I wish I could ask my staff to write letters on my behalf , but what good would it do, just take me to a place I don't want to go. I feel that my work and dedication to my job should speak for its self and if one person and thier games can make someone not see what i do, then thier just not gonna see it. I know that I have alot of staff that stand behind me and I greatly appreciate them, but I do not want them to do any thing they may regret later. I put out alot of evidence toady proved my point and showed them things that even a blindman couldnt dismiss, so lets see how things go over the next few days, cause if they go anything like they did today, I will come out on top with out bringing myself down to play a dirty game with really no winners.

Just wanted to take the time to tell all the wonderful mothers out there in cherrytap world. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY !!! As we sit and think about the women who become mothers, we think to ourselves my god how do they do it. ?? From the time of conception we start to love and care for our child, dont matter if its a boy or girls, good at sports or a genius, all we know is its our child and we will fight to the death for its saftey.. during the birth processes we scream and cry, but all is forgotten as soon as we see our child and he/she is put into out arms, what a mircile, that smile that touch nothing could be better than this, no other child is as cute or as adorable as mine. We can't wait for the first word, first time the crawl, first steps, and the best first is when they look at you and tell you they love you !! There is no manual on how to be a mom we wing it , We learn new things every day, we have to be doctor, friend, teacher, and for some dad too. Its the hardest job that we could ever take on and we embrace the task with open arms So I say ........... Mothers day is everyday !! but thnak god we honor our mothers at least once a year, cause not everyone can be a MOMMY

I guess I should start off by saying what I did lol..... I have actually stayed Married for 15 years as of May 2nd this year. In the past few days I have had a couple of peope ask me OMG how did you do it....And my reply was.......... Hum I dont know. Ive been thinking about this questions for a few days now.. And I have been pondering what a good answer should be.. I would have to say alot of comperomise, alot of understanding on both sides, learning to over look each others little quriks and give each other space when needed, dont ever try to change the person your with, and be yourself in all matters. But the truth is I really don't know how we made it this long thinking back it was a rough road with alot of twist and turns along the way. Trying to over look someones quirks haha we all know dont really happen we just learn to live with them, Comperomise lol just do it my way or we fight til I win or we forget what we were fighting about, Giving each other space well that is a good thing to do cause i ask him what do you need packed and just let me know about WHEN you'll be home, so I know how long I need to find a siiter for so I can go to work. And the biggest one is not trying to change someone.. Well no matter what change IS gonna happen. it seams the older you get the more things change and more you get set in your ways ! ( dont make sense , but its true) Lets face it people change wether or not we want to admit it , either you change with it or you fight it.. Honestly I think its a loss if you try to fight it. we all are who we are and no matter what we want its gonna happen. I hear people say all the time well you havent changed a bit ... Guess what I have it may not be noticable to people I dont see every day , but belive it we all do, even if we dont WANT TO ADMIT IT TO OURSELVES.. So the answer to HOW I DID IT is... I really dont know all I can say is I LOVE my husband, even through the rough spots, and the days he just ticks me off, Ive learned he is who he is & I am who I am and were not gonna change.

I just wanted to say I hope everyone had a great and safe halloween,,,,Dont eat to much candy lol have a great week Love Trace

I understand that things are not like when I was in school, But I do believe that things are getting out of control when a 14 year old girl cant carry a small purse to school and the kids cant have a cell phone on them while in school either. I am not saying kids should be allowed to have cell phone on and using them during school hours, but I do believe that they should be allowed to have them with them off and in a book bag or purse until the end of the day. why ?? Well in my case my daughter rides public buses from school home and if something happens like the bus breaks down or what ever I want my daughter to beable to call me and let me know. Everyone knows that now a days it takes 2 people to work to make it, and we all cant be home every day when our kids get home and at 14 they dont need a sitter any more, so in reality that cell phone is her life line to her parents. I was told recently that if my daughter brought her phone to school again that the school would not give it back til the end of the year, What B.S !! we told tthe school that we tell her to take it and that if they had an issue with it, we would have her take it to the office in the am and then pick it up there after school on her way out, so there would be no problems with her using it during class hours.do you believe they still said NO. what a crock!! The next thing I get home is a letter saying that the girls at the school can NO longer carry purses to school its a security issue..and that no book bags are allowed to be carried in the classrooms. I can understand the book bags but whats up with the purses for the girls..If your a female and you can remember back to when you were 14...I think you can understand where I am going with this... At 14 girls you know have thier time and its already a rough issue for them, at least with a purse they can ask to use the restroom and no one can see it, but with out being allowed to carry a purse what are they suspose to do shove it in thier pockets or carry it out in thier hands ...Come ON this is over board. I know everyone wants to make sure the kids are safe in school, I agree with that, I know that nothing is like it was 20 years ago, times change and all that, but I still think something isnt right here. Let see here 20 years ago if you were "bad" your parents beat your ass.. not now a days use time out so the kids can sit and think about what they did .. (Ok ill sit and think about who just pissed me off and how I can get them back for it) back in my day you sat after they beat your ass so you could remember how bad you butt stung from getting it slapped. I guess what I am saying is times have changed but isnt it the parents responsibilty to make sure that the kids are going to school with the proper morale values and with the correct attitudes?? I know some people dont want god stuff in the schools I am not a religous person but isnt part of the 10 comandment thou shall not kill ? were all so worried about pleasing a small population that we all forgot about our up bring. Nothing is perfect but if your an adult my age in your 30s or more how many of you can recall having a shooting at school, another kid killing another kid on purpose (planed ) MAYBE THE OLD WAYS WERE BETTER !! SOME TIMES CHANGE IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST !!