gotta bitch, you guys
some of you know my situation,most of you do not. i am here with 4 kids by myself right now. i am doing the best i can. i don't know how i can do more. i am a manager of a very busy restaurant, and if you are familiar with that industry, you know the hours are long. anyway- my children are 5 and 9. my boyfriend, who is away- his kids are 14 and 16. the 16 year old is fantastic, never a bit of a problem. he is a boy. mine have not yet reached the problematic stage as of yet. his 14 yr old daughter, however, will not behave. always in trouble at school, coming home late, hanging out with boys way too old for her. i had her to the emergency room a few nights ago, as she wrote a suicide note in school. they made her be evaluated before she could return to school. i took her. we were there all night. we talked during the wait, and i found out that she thought she was pregnant. i am at a loss as to what to do with her. i am in charge because we live together, but i have no real say, because we are not married yet. i called her mother, and she wants nothing to do with the situation. she says to have her locked up. i cannot do that. this whole thing is so unfair. she lives in another state, and was here over the weekend to have sex with her boyfriend, but do you think she took them off my hands for any amount of time??? no! she said she was not in a position to help. HELP???? these are not my children, and she can't HELP ME??? she didn't even offer to help buy food for the week or anything. i am so disgusted, i could scream. my hands are pretty much tied as to what i can do other than call social services and have them take her. i can't do that to my boyfriend. this is his child, but she is so out of control. lost and confused i am. i just had to get that out.
