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I know that there will never be anyone read these unless i ask to to make it worth while and to make myself feel special but such is life and no one reads it at least it is how ever many words this winds up being that are floating in cyber space instead of my head. 

  Its amazing what thinking can do to someone. It can solve problems, make plans, make up jokes, but it can also remind you of the past, feed you negitive feelings in a whole range of things, making you believe things when the truth is standing right in front of you. That is one thing i have never understood about thinking, how is thinking truly good for you? Sure it can help you make decisions and solve problems and things like that but if you think about it ( oh the irony ) the only time most people ever think in great length is when its something bad and they want to remember things and most of the time when you think in great detail its normally bad. Now this leads me to a point. When you think of negative things and things that have happened in the past and you think and think and think some more about them you can project them into the present. If you dont believe me try this, think about something bad that happened to you like umm i dunno umm a bad relationship we have all had them. Okay you thinking about the bad relationship and how crappy it was and how much you didnt like it and how bad you were treated? Good, now keep doing that for about a week every day. Now imagine you have someone that is the total opposite of that horrible relationship who does everything they can to prove that they are different. Got those to things? Good now if you will notice its really hard for you to not to project the bad negative thoughts that YOU see onto the one that is telling you they are different. It would take something strong and true to endure all of what you project onto them and the ones that are not strong enough it could cause them to leave which in turn would take away something good. All because of thinking, you have lost something that could have been good but because you thought about things and projected what you expect to happen which can cause the negative to happen.

Thinking can also drive you literally insane because thinking of the same thing for days or weeks at a time will eventually lead to so much stress and general mind meltingness that you will wanna have a padded room with a warm jacket and the funny medicines.The more thinking on one topic the more it consumes you and becomes a part of you untiil you dont know what to do any more. It can cause headaches and a list of other things.

Since most of us all we truly think about is the negative and barely focus on positive things we can feel really bummed out even depressed in some cases. Why is this? Thinking is supposed to be a good thing right? Its supposed to be used for good to make good decisions and solve issues and problems that arise.  But seriously how many of you that may read this (which i know will be the big ole goose egg and if im wrong and someone is reading this just for pure curiousity and insite into the mind of a closet nice guy then cool means you are actually someone who wants to know about the person not just a quick rate a rarity on this site) really think of the positive things? Im sure the vast majorty if not all of you think negative when you actually think.

What you just read shows 2 examples major true examples of how thinking is bad for you and lends it self to wondering if besides trying to figure out problems to survive and remember things the survive or maintain a job is it really worth thinking? It can be a danger to your mental, physical, and even your emotional well being and often times can endanger all 3 at the same time. The easiest way to remedy this danger is to think about positive things at some point and not focus on such negativity all the time or let past events sway current events because that can lead to negative thinking which as i said 3 lines ago ( come on keep up i know you can) can endanger your mental physically and emotional health all at the same time. Live for the hear and now, whats in the past can not be changed and happened to make the person who is sitting there reading this.  If used properly thinking is awesome but its not its misused and causes more problems than if thinking was used right.

 

 Thanks for getting this far if you did.... i owe you a drink

 

And thanks for listening/reading more ramblings of a closet writer

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