As I have matured... I've learned several things and thought that I would share them with ya'll. I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in... lol... (I really didn't learn that, but thought it was cute anyways...) I've learned taht no matter how much I care, some people are just assholes.
This is a real deal one here... I'VE LEARNED THAT IT TAKES YEARS TO BUILD UP TRUST, AND IT ONLY TAKE SUSPICION, NOT PROOF, TO DESTROY IT. I know this one for a fact. I've had this to happen. To love someone with my heart and trust them, but they were always weary of me.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others - they are more screwed up than you think. This is very true and I know some of these people too... lol.
I've learned that you can keep vomiting long after you think you're finished... I know this one for a fact. I've been pregnant twice and have had many a hang overs....
I've learned that we are respnsible for what we do, unless we are celebrities.
I've learned that 99% of the time when something isn't working in your house, one of your kids did it. Yes, this is so very true...
I've learned and know for a fact... that the people that you care most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never seem to go away.
I have learned from my own personal experience that things in a relationship take time. I just hope that one day I can teach someone else how to love again. There is that possibility with time. I know that it can happen. Just believe.
