The Psychology of Conditional Love
The whole world seems to be doing this wrong. As children grow up, we ask them to do certain things. If they do, we shower love on them. If they don't, we scold them. We deny them our love. The teacher does it. The boss is no different. And the partner is the same too.Rejection. Scorn. Could shoulders. That's what people get when they don't follow the carrot and stick policy. Do what I say. Do what I like. Any you'll be my best friend. You'll get my Love.But, conditional love works in the short term. Guess we can easily find the answer from our own experiences. Unconditional love to children, friends, partners and parents. That's the winning strategy. Try it and you won't regret.
Smile - A sign of true love
A smile is a sign of recognition and love. A smile is a curved line that sets things straight. The mother's love throbs when she sees the first smile on her new born. Smiles take away a lot of pressure and ill feeling. Smiles can conquer even a hard heart. A smile is enduring. A loving smile tells you that all's well with you.The American Heritage Dictionary defines a smile as, "A facial expression characterized by an upward curving of the corners of the mouth and indicating pleasure, amusement, or derision." A loving smile is enduring. Did you know that it takes more muscles to frown than to smile. Do what's easy. Smile. Cheers! Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing
~ Mother Teresa
