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What does dancing tell us? Of course it depends on the music, and the dancers interpretation. Dancing is body language amplified. If the body is completely covered as with a choir robe, then the conversation is muffled. Then the only thing you can tell from the person's motion is that they are enjoying themselves, or just enjoying the beat of the music.
Am I getting to a point? Just like when a person speaks words, those words can be lies, also your body language can lie. Just as when someone chooses to say nothing, they are keeping a secret; When a person chooses to cover they're body, they are keeping a secret, and they don't even realize it.
Next, just as some people think and communicate in a shallow manner, the average person interprets body language in a shallow manner AND in IQ terms at less than 60. Don't get me wrong. I'm not calling anybody ignorant. However, when it comes to body language, most people are illiterate.
Men especially, but also women see "sexy". We know that a rapist believes that no means yes. While a man is busy raping with his eyes a woman that is dressed hotly, in actuality the woman may have a yeast infection in addition to her period, or PMS. She could possibly be having the worst day of her life, and trying to buck up and not let it show, and even the most sensative and well raised males are only going to see "sexy". By the way, guys, if you have never noticed, that really pisses a woman off.
If you don't want you're body language misinterpreted, the only thing you can do is cover up better. How many of you that have been around amish families has ever truly seen the shape of an Amish girls ass? None, because it is always covered. Going by genetics alone, I guarantee to you that if it were uncovered, it would be just as sexy as the average bikini bearing girl.
My point finally: Just as it would be a miracle to convince a KKK leader that black people are human beings and equal to white people, it it would take a miracle to change our ignorance of body language. My suggestion is to concentrate on a more advanced languages. Verbal, and artistic. Body language has changed very little, if at all from the Neanderthal period. 90% of the time, you are only going to attract people who think and soialize like Neanderthals. Anyone can show their tits and their ass, because everyone has them. I'm a man. I think its attractive and sexy, too.
You're personality, and intelligence when you let it show shines brighter than the most well oiled 18 year old ass on the entire planet.
