Sometimes just shouting or im'ing with someone. Can create a awsome thought to blog about. In this case it was talking about are you single with someone.
Slowly just bits and pieces came out, and the talk of why your single ect was brought up. And during our little talk i had a thought.
What is the key to Love or Loving someone. Well its actually two pieces.
1. Complete Trust of your partner in everything, that they will always try to treat you right, that they will always worry about your feelings, and finally that they believe you above all others.
2. Communication this is probably the hardest thing in any realtionship. Tring to find a way to talk, and talk effectivly even when emotions are high. Most couples break down because of a failure in this, when they forget communication was what brought them together.
I am no expert on Love, and am no expert on communication. My only advice to everyone is remember the two above things must be present for Love to grow and be sustatined. I would say if you have issues find a way to solve it, if talking is hard, use email, or write it on paper. But dont write about your problems right away, first right about you need to talk, and suggest a way you can do if effectivly.
I remember i dated a gal once, our solution was when we met i was on the net. So my internet name was safe and i always listened. So when she had a huge issue and had trouble telling me, we went down to the river and she asked to talk to my internet persona.
yes it seems strange but it did work, i got the info i needed from her, and she told me the problem. I would respond as the friend, and when we got home wed have a deeper talk as lovers. It helped with the emotions alot, but one thing i learned is at some point i wanted her to see me as that friend all the time. So if a solution like this is used remember to set a time limit on how long you use it before you stop using it.. IE 6 months or something.
Just a idea.
