I find myself contemplating this very idea. There is just NO romance anymore when it comes to dating. I mean, dinner, drinks.....and then what?
I haven't dated a prince charming in years it seems!! Where is the romance? Is it dead?
One of the most wonderful guys permeates my mind. We talked for hours and hours before we met.
When we finally did meet, it was like FIREWORKS! The physical attraction was awesome. But it was what he had in his hands that melted me.
Flowers. Yes Guys..........He brought FLOWERS on his first date. Now...most will think this is cheesy, but ALL women love it. If they don't you may want to check if they ARE a woman!
It was just an added touch, something that he had gone out of his way to show me he thought I was special. Romance. Sigh. I melt at the thought of it. Going out of your way to show someone how special they are to you hardly exists any longer.
From what I have realized, men think a phone call or coming over to see you is sufficient enough to justify the fact that they are interested in you.
Romance goes both ways! Sisters, come on! If you do have a man that brings you flowers, surprise him one day with a bubble bath and candles...just for him! Lavish him! While hes in the bath, make yourself as beautiful as possible, throw on some sexy lingerie, candles around the bedroom, and show him how Special he is!
I just wish more people would keep it Alive after they are together. I think if more people had romance in their lives for each other, there would be less divorce.
Romance isn't just flowers and candy.
I consider the little things romantic!
*the way he stares at you and brushes a piece of your hair away from your face
*when he leaves little notes around the house, telling you how he feels
*coming home to a house lit up by candles and a bottle of wine waiting for you
*when he grabs your hand in public and pulls you close to him
*kissing in the rain
*feeding you dessert
*when he holds the door open for you, and the car door
*when he makes you feel protected from the rest of the world
I know there are so many more ways, but these were the ones that came to my mind.
I hope for all that read this, if you are with someone, to remember the reason you ARE with them is because they ARE special. Bring back the Romance I say!! Show them you will go out of your way to show them they are special!!
