What every woman is programmed through society to GET from a man. They promote the POTP (POWER OF THE P**SY) to get it, along with anything else. They are So programmed to fall. A little sweet talk, fake acting, either with the POTP or telling someone anything and everything they want to hear, and listening to what they want in a woman, and of course she IS EXACTLY that:
and we got it. The promise, the ring, then engagement. Our next step is of course, moving in with you.
Just to see "how it goes" when in fact we do, say I DO. And then you are DONE. You may has well kicked your own ass, or go to your friends house and let them all take turns!
Women may act stupid but I think this is an em bred thing. To do whatever means necessary to get someone to take care of them, whether it be financially, stably,emotionally, or all of the above.
It was em bred with me, being a female once but I learned that it is SO undeniably wrong, I couldn't and would never want to DO this to a man!
As soon as they have their Promise, they use it to any ultimate advantage. They move in, take over everything, and soon your head is spinning, shouting...THIS IS NOT WHAT I WANTED!!!!
Its a shame the POTP can do this, and also loneliness.
Now......let us shift to another way of thinking.
There is this girl........omg the most beautiful thing and you WANT her. You dont really need her, but Want plays a big role in Both mens heads! haha
You do the Promise-and a few months go by and she is NOTHING that you saw you Wanted her to be in the beginning.
The motive of my note is this: just because everything is GREAT in the beginning--Dont SETTLE!! Make sure every day is going to be full of surprises...good ones. Make sure you have things in common besides POTP! lol.........Make sure when she is sick as a dog, she still looks amazingly beautiful to you.
Make sure she is the ONE for you and YOU for her too! Trust, Respect, Honesty....if these things start falling out of play--
MAKE A STAND FOR YOURSELF. Life is so short. Be with the person you are Meant to be with and not someone you Think you should be in the beginning. When things start to go array, open up those pretty little lips and say something. In the long run you arent hurting just her, you are hurting yourself, and any future Ms Right that IS out there.
