WHYSOSERIOUS aka OT's blog: "Real or Fake "

I have never really written about this as I have never considered myself too real. I always just considered myself honest. However, in this latest FU experience I have noticed some similar things that have seemed to spill over into my real life. However the end result in both my FU life, and my real life are very different. 

When I speak to people I normally connect with them very easily, and very quickly. I'm a very good listener, and most become comfortable with me in no time at all. This is either men or women. Howver, mostly women. Most men will not dare let themselves close to me. No. I'm not gay! :P The reason for that is for another blog. Lol. I look back on my forty seven years of life, and realize this has been the case most of my life. I have always been closer to women. I was raised by a very strong single woman, and I think watching her through the years showed me something about how women should be treated. Just a thought. I could be wrong.

The point of it is that in real life when I speak to people , and am able to communicate with them. Those individuals usually become very close to me. They are normally floored by my listening skills. The way I can take in their issues, and can not offer advice, but just listen. There are so many people out there that just want and need someone to listen to them. Isn't that what we all want? In person people can see and feel that I am being genuine. They can feel that I am being real as they see it on my face. They feel it. I try to always uplift people, and tell them how great they are. I am of the firm belief if you tell someone how great they are they to start to believe it, and then they feel it. Everyone deserves to smile. 

Now in my FU life I am exactly the same. However, I speak to way more women on FU. Only because well I don't add men normally. I just don't. Most are pigs here. I don't care what anyone thinks. I am not catering to women or whatever you think. I have witnessed what men say to women here, and it is honestly fucking disgusting. In any event I also can relate to people very easily here. I am again forty seven years old, and have seen and experienced a lot. My experience on the different things I have experienced also comes to light here, but when I go to uplift people here it doens't seem they believe it. Especially women. Women tend to speak to me a few times and then run away. I mean it has gotten to where I am gun shy to even speak to most women. God forbid they are even remotely attractive. They have such barriers, and I understand why. I really do. Perhaps most women can't tell the difference between real and fake here. I believe it may be due to the fact of all the fuck nuts here that have blown a bunch of smoke up their asses. I don't blow smoke. Trust me. There are a few of you out there that know that about me. However, many more don't know that about me. Which is unfortunate. 

This blog is to really let all of you know that I am not playing any games. I am just being honest. The game is one thing here on fubar the other is the interactions that you can have with people. I am sure you all have experienced genuine friendships here. I know it is hard to distingush at times between the real people and the fake people. I am very real. We all have to roll the dice at times. I do it all the time. What fun is life without a little chance? Let's be friends. Chances are you don't have enough good people in your life as it is. Don't you want more? I do. I know I don't have enough. I'm not too real at times...I am just the real me.