WHYSOSERIOUS aka OT's blog: "Bling!"

First of all I just want to thank everyone for commenting. You are all so awesome, and I have gotten many private messages of support. I just want to make sure of one thing though. I am a big fuckin boy and realize the errors of my ways, and I in no way shape or form meant to have anyone take any kind of pity on me. The blog was just more about my thought process, and what I am thinking when I bling someone for the first time and then after that. At the end of the day it is me that clicked the button and sent the bling, and I am fortunate as even if I am being used I always figure it out...I am only a little slow..lol. The other thing is I can afford it as any money I do spend here is not taking any food or anything else out of my mouth. This is all part of fubar life and I am sure many of you have experienced the same thing as someone did point out that this does not only happen to men, but can easily happen to anyone male of female. Thanks again, and I love ya all! Man I am gonna have to write another one of these things this was fuckin fun!! Maybe the next one will be aobut eskimo kisses?? What do you think? Rob aka whysoseriousAKA OT! ;)

To Bling or not to Bling? That is the question? To bling someone can be a double edged sword. Let's say I find a girl cute, interesting and she seems intelligent and I want to get her attention well the easiest way to do that is to bling her right? The problem with that is that I have noticed that when u bling someone when u first meet them on Fubar there is a strong possibility that you have set the wrong tone for the Fu friendship especially if it is an expensive bling. People are people and when u set that tone right out of the gate the expectation even though some of u will say it is not the case is that you will continue to bling them through out the friendship cuz if u dont they will wonder why u dont bling them any more?? The blinger then must decide if he or she wants to keep coming out of pocket to continue to bling this person or persons in order to maintain that level of attention you have established with that person. In many cases it can be a fucked if u do fucked if u dont kind of thing. This is a mistake that I have made before, and I am sure I will make again. The reason I say I will make it again is that I dont know how someone is going to react to the bling. Will the person be grateful and take it is a one time gift? Or will that person now think to themselves..hey I just found a sucker what else can I get out of them, and if they are thinking that it could easily cost the blinger a lot of money before the truth really comes out. As if you keep blinging the person or persons because u think they have become ur friend and yet behind the scenes they are plotting to get more out of u, well u are kinda fucked as now u are dealing with someone that is a fucking fake, and we all know that they are out there. The other part of this is who u bling. If you bling the most popular of girls the friend requests dont seem to stop, but if u just bling someone like little ole me the bling will go under the radar and no one will really notice. This I know as a fact as it personally happened to me about a month and a half ago I noticed when I blinged 2 very popular girls on here that my popularity suddenly increased, and of course u know I initially thought is was my dashing good looks..lol! The thing is there are so many visitors to those peoples pages that they saw it was me and some came running to see what they could get. Hey it is all good like I said before everyone wants attention, but the challenge that I have with this kind of people is that u faked up that u liked me..really, really? U faked up for some bling? What does that really say about u? Yes some will say well u are the dumb ass that blinged them and u are right as well, but I'm not bitching about the money it cost what I am saying is that u are dealing with peoples real feelings when u pretend u like them. Do people really not see that? I dont get all hurt about it as I figure it was my decision and you cant always take a snap shot of someones character right away it takes time to see the real them. So I take it as lesson learned and move on, but I can afford to do that it even though it may of cost me. So the answer to the question is I say bling away if you can and if u are trying to get someone's attention, but after you have their attention stop blinging for a while and find out who they are, and if they are worthy of more bling before u do it again and again. Those of u that know me know that I am generous, and know that I am a giver, but no one should be taken advantage of and even though some will say it was that persons fault for giving the bling you know damn well that others are influencing people to get the bling. Be grateful people and appreciative for everything u get here, and in life and if you live that way more will come to you. Remember karma is a bitch, and she will bite you in the ass. Please note that if I bling you I like you make no doubt about that or I am interested in getting to know u on a genuine level. Eskimo kisses! Rob