If you are talking to a guy, take him literrally. That's how they talk. Unless they hold up three fingers and then tell you to read between the lines.
If you are talking to a female, you need to try to read between the lines. That's just how they are, and that's why they expect you to be that way.
For any of you who got the wrong idea---
I was not calling my ex ugly in my last blog. Actually part of the reason I was attracted to her is because of how she looked. She looked like a ghost with the black hair and white face she had in one of her pictures. I liked the way she looked. I wouldn't describe that look as really pretty, although I was facinated by it, and it did influence the decision I made to bring her out here.
Sometimes I think she looks pretty. Beutey is atleast somewhat in the eye of the beholder. Sometimes there's people I don't find attractive untill I really like them. Than after I really like them, they seem really pretty to me. And then later on when I don't like them that much, they somhow lose their beuty. There are times that people can be so attractive and appealing due to who they are, their personality and such, you really like them. The positive light or whatever you see them in, makes their flaws, or imperfections or whatever unnoticable. Later on, if your view changes of them, and you like them less, this light can dissapear.
That's kind of what happened with block. ( not that many of the people reading have any idea who that person was. ) She didn't look very attractive at all atfirst. But then later after I liked her more, she did. Eventually, long after she broke up with me, it ( her attractiveness ) mostly left. Most of the people I was around, didn't like her, or the way she looked. They thought I was insane, or stupid for even ascociating with her. Her friends thought about the same thing of me I think.
Well, I'm not going on about that right now. Hopefully people see the point I'm trying to make here. And no, I'm not just writing this because I know my ex will read it and I think it will make her feel better. Actually, I don't even know if it will or not. She could get totally pissed off again. Whatever works for her. It seems people are often in whatever mood they feel like being in, and then give a reason of why they are in that mood later on.
