Lets take a moment out of our busy day to clarify things a bit, shall we?
Pretty much every day for the last several days I have had to delete and block people. Usually takes less than 10 minutes to figure it out. Why do I do that? Well, it usually boils down to two things. People just not taking the time to read my profile and, secondary to that is that people underestimate me and my ability/willingness to block you the hell out if you are an asshole.
Yes, sometimes I like to chat with people on Yahoo or MSN. No, just because I have those programs doesnt mean that I am going to chat with you, just because you say hello to me in a shout. Only people who I suspect are not assholes ever make it to chat.
Yes, I have a camera. No, just because I have a camera doesnt mean that you will get to see my camera turned on during a chat. I decide who sees what on my cam. That why its MY CAM. You can make the decisions about your own damned cam, ok?
Yes, some people get to see me chat on camera. No, just because you get to see me on camera does NOT mean that you will get to see my boobs, or anything else. Thats the beauty of it being MY body on MY webcam. I make all the decisions about them, not you. Pestering me, repeatedly, to remove my clothing, stick my fingers in places, dressing for you, changing my clothes, or whatever wins you a one-way ticket to "Iggy Island".
Yes, sometimes I will accept your offer to see your webcam. NO, that does NOT mean that I want to see your cock, watch you masturbate or any other damned thing. Try to wrap your mind around this one. Some people just like to see who they are chatting with. If you try and force me to watch you when I say I dont want to, or to try and bully me into letting you watch me, its "Iggy Island" for you, and it wont bother me one little bit to send you there, get it?
Yes, I have NSFW pix. No, that doesnt mean that I sit around all day waiting for people online to cybersex with. I have a mind (and a pretty good one, I might add) and lots of interests OUTSIDE of sex. I can be one of the nicest, most caring, sweetest people you will ever come across in your whole life but, make no mistake about it, I can be a bitch, too, if thats what it is to delete and block some asshole who is acting like he is 17 on prom night. I can understand there are desperate times and moods but come on, seriously. Isnt there a better way to approach things than being pushy?
Want to stay on my friends list and/or keep (or start) chatting with me? Talk about more than just sex, ok? I give three warnings that I am getting pissed about a line of conversation before I block someone. If you ignore the third one, I assume you are eihter an asshole or retarded and have no problem blocking you, at that point.
Be nice, ok? You be nice and Ill be nice right back. If I feel like rewarding you for being nice, Ill let you know. I have online "friends" that Ive chatted with for two, three years and longer who have never seen me wearing less than a bikini. There is a reason they have been here so long. Its called respect. Try it, and you'll get it back, I promise.
