Ok...just so you're "in the know"...here's how I work. If you ever hear me talk about dessert it has nothing to do with food. People are usually more apt to understand something when it's in the form of a basic analogy...so, here's my way of describing my sexual preferences.
Men are like my entree and women are like my dessert. You can live without dessert, but you're not going to last long without the main course.
