Well this month marks 5 years on this account on Fubar. While I was here back in the Cherry Tap days, I've spent most of my time Fubar side. I've made alot of friends over the years, some have come and gone..some have stayed..some I'd wish I'd never met. Then, I also met the love of my life. I am grateful for that part everyday.
While I'm not quite as active on the Fu-side as I used to be, because quite honestly it got to be more about a fu-popularity contest then fun anymore, I spend majority of my time playing mafia. With that came a whole new slew of friends, and they are awesome people. I've made more TRUE friends playing the game then I have fu-side..so that is where I reside. Its my stress reliever...my outlet during the day when work and kids stress get the best of me.
I've seen so many changes on this site, some for the better, some far worse. The begging hasn't changed. LOL. But the game certainly has. It used to be about helping other people, having fun, being social. It has strayed far from that. Now it's just about who has the most shiny things running, being the most popular/liked, ranking red or whatever else is the fad of the day. This is supposed to be a social adult site. THAT MEANS BEING SOCIAL. Talking to people, making friends..enjoying stupid conversations even if only for a minute. That does not mean jumping in my box to tell me the 10 different sexual things you'd like to do to me, or flirting with peoples significant others..because honestly thats fucking rude. You wouldn't want it done to you, don't disrepect me or him either. Friends..conversation..laughing. That's what it should be about.
Hubby brought it to my attention today that I have over 4000 friends on here, but the funny thing is I've maybe only spoken to 30 of them. Time for a change, time to clean up the list..I think so. If you want to remain a friend, be social...and I'll do the same. If your simply creeping my page hoping to get a glimpse of some Tits and Ass, you will be waiting a long as time..wasting mine and your time. I'm a great friend, I can listen with the best of them, give the best advice, laugh with, chat with, hell even if you need to bitch..my chat is open. Try it...you never know.
Peace!