Being a Dominant requires you to be in control of yourself before you can ever hope to safely and successfully be in control of another.
It is where you have control over a consenting submissive and having the power to control only what the submissive has given you the right to control.
Power can not be taking it must be given freely from a submissive.
Domination must come from the heart. If you want a fast easy way to be "boss" of your household this isnt the way to do it.
Domination is not something you "try" its just who you are.
Respect from a submissive is also EARNED not demanded.