Love... love is one of those tricky words that seem to be used more often than needed. The American Heritage dictionary defines love as:
A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
So having that said now we get to the tricky part. When do you know that you love someone? Cant you have those same feelings, but not love them? Is that really how one defines love?
The topic that I want to talk about is the loseness of the term "love". I have conversations with complete strangers and they continuely call me "love" or "hun" or say that im great and that they love me. (extreme yes, but its happened) And I have come to the fact that all they want is to get into my pants. and it clicked...the fastest way to get into someones pants is to tell them that you love them and BOOM! you get sex. I understand that this isnt true for most, but why has those three little words come with that out come? And when a person says that, how can you possibly know that they mean it? Its very difficult to determine this. But why does it have to be that hard? When i say that i love someone i mean it. I cant do anything but love. You should be able to give and recieve "I love you" without feeling obligated to having anything physical come after it.
So now "i love you" has become meaningless spoken...when a person says "i love you" they have to show that they are really truely in love with you. However again thats a double edged sword. It doesnt have to be though. There are cute and nice gestures to show your affection towards another person, like picnics, or little notes, and crap like that. I had a pamphlet somewhere...anyway moving on...
What im saying is that People i dont know, Dont tell me you love me, you dont know me. Dont call me "love" because im not your love. And stop trying to get into my pants because its never happening.
