Just some random questions about love and women.
I am going through a break up right now and things just aren't going smooth as I would like them to. No I am not expecting it to be lovefest 2007, but I would like more civility. I have to admit I was an ass at first, but I was hurt. Now we are in the process of dividing possessions. We are doing alright, which from my understanding is usually the hardest part.
Now where we are having trouble is with communication. We will be hanging out and things will be fine. I ask a random question to make small talk, and she will answere and we move on. Then later I find out she told me a flat out lie about something very meaningless.
Should I expect this, and if we are to remain frends how can we if she lies about things that are unimportant? Should I believe anything she says?
I don't want to persuade anyone's opinion to my side or hers, I just want an impartial opinion on things. I love her to death despite the lies, and everything else that went down.
I was at the hospital last night until 5am with her and I stayed with her until 6 to make sure she was alright. Things are more complex than wah I have said of course.
She tells me that she still loves me too but can I believe her when it seems that almost every word out of her mouth is a lie?
Has anyone been in this situation before? Am I just expecting too much from her? Should I just cut her out of my life? These are thoughts that go through my head.
Why doesn't love come with those disclaimers that everything else in the world comes with? You know something along the lines of, careful love can make you feel as bad as it makes you feel good and it might be the hardest thing you have ever experienced in life. Something like that right.
Well I have gone on long enough any constructive advice would be most appreciated. Thanks in advance. Luv you all
