You know, there are many different types of people in this world. Some are takers, some are givers, some are winners, some are losers, some are achievers, and some are just plain L-A-Z-Y! Some are liars, some are too honest. There are also the independent people as well as the needy people. Well, I think the problem is that when people come together, they make the wrong connection. What are people thinking? Don't settle! Find someone who you are compatible with and vice versa. So he/she is sweet, so you like the same music.....SO WHAT! What is important to them? What do they think about politics, war, poverty, working hard. Do they truly have the same dreams, wants, desires? Do you have similar beliefs? IS THE CHEMISTRY TRULY THERE?!? SCREW how things are in the bedroom. That is not what I mean by " chemistry ". You can be a good lay but not be much of a human being. You can be smart and still make the wrong decisions. You can have a heart, but not the ability to express yourself. You can have motivation but no will power. COME ON PEOPLE! Nobody is perfect but for GODS sake, use your f*cking brains!