if you are with someone then you need to read this....if you have lost someone then you all already where i am at.
they say that when you are mad an in an argument you say thing that you don't mean...but those words still hurt...before you say something stop an think.....if you love that person as much as you think then you will take this to heart....cuz love can't heal all wounds...there are even some wounds that time can not heal....so if you do say those words there is a chance that you could lose them....then you can spend your nights laying awake...missing them...missing their smile...missing them in your arms...you are the one feeling utterly empty inside....feel your self "die" inside....wanting to hide from the world so it doesn't see you break down...pain can drive some but love of someone is a better fuel....love of family...love of friends...but yes they do help..but the strongest love there is is the love of someone you SHARE a life with...you do not control it....so when you feel anger wield up inside of you when you an they are fighting...stop...walk away....count to 10...cuz i don't enjoy the thought of another soul add to the murder....love is very powerful...it can blind you....it can make you not think straight..an you never think about it till the only thing left is the emotional inertia of the relationship...till it is torn away..nothing will prepare you for that moment..not faith..not religion..nothing.....i now understand those words that were put at the beginning of James O'barr's love letter called "The Crow"...
