Ok I hope I am not defending anyone by saying this because that not the intention, but why can't people be happy with who they are or how they look? You are the way you are for a reason. Don't go by what other who don't know you or those who don't care for because they haven't taken the time to get to know you. Listen to those who have taken the time to know you and see the beautiful person you are. We all are beautiful in our way. Besides true beauty is found from within and not from what you look like or how you dress. You can have the body of a barbie doll and the face of a porcelain doll, but if you have a dark heart and soul then you are the ugliest person alive.