I know you upset and confused right now. I just wish we could sit down and talk about things. You have no idea how it feels to feel the uncertainty I feel right now. If you dont want to remain married to me. Fine thats youre decision I can undrestand that. That doesn't change the fact that we need to sit down and settle things. I wish you would concider how much I love or kids. I need them and they need me just as much as you. I dont wish to take the kids away from you. I dont wish to take the kids away from you. I just want to be as equal in their lives as you. They do need both of us. If we can not be together with them we need to figure out how to both be with them together. Fairly, civily, and equally. We are both adults we are both fair. Their is no need to bring this to a fight for rights. We have gone through this before and we were able to resolve things in a fair manner. Lets do it again please. Try not to let what you feel get altered by what you hear around you. These are our problems our kids. We need to settle this how we feel it best. I dont want this to be any harder than it already is. Please understand this. Talk to me soon.