for once something has gone my way in reference to my asshole middle brother the jerk made me go to trial for my order of protection application he couldn't accept that he is putting my family in danger by his actions.
I could not put up with any more the the felons coming out of my garage in the morning the fear of the police raiding my home with threats of them taking the house away and being on the streets. My mother is so co dependent and allowed it to go on so long but in her current health she proved over and over that she can not make decisions for her self and i had to make a proactive choice and its done.
My brother a drug addict and drunk and has abused both since he was in his teens his brain is fried and because of my mother never took responsibility for his actions. he never was a adult in anyway. he's a coward and runs away from any thing that he should be doing like sharing in helping his mother that burden is left to me and my younger brother.
we have always supported my mother paid her bills replaced things that broke and needed to be replaced he spent his money on drugs stock cars and his friends. in the winter he would sit in his room and not look for work. last year he sat there and my younger brother worked to jobs and struggled to keep the furnace going and the lights on which most of last winter they did without heat and slept in the living room. the house is now a hell hole because of his lack of caring for anyone but himself.
well to get back to my reason for getting a order of protection he literally was putting my daughter in danger of physical mental and health wise i was in danger of her being taken away at no real fault of my own. because of his drug and alcohol use the, felons coming in and out. many thing get missing out of my storage shed the yard is a disaster. the constant police activity was the last straw all his comment was its not his fault its his friends fault but if he wasn't here none of this would happen. well in court he is not only has to refrain from me and my daughter but the judge added more to the order he cannot come home under the influence and he cannot have any of his friends on the property ever for any reason. thank god i brought my younger brother as a witness it helped alot and he corroborated all my charges. i told the truth of his behavior and the consequences his actions. may be this will make him more aware that he has to take responsibility. i know people like him won't and never will.
Now the next step is to have my younger brother get power of atty and he will be gone.
