"I firmly beleive that the Dom/sub relationship is mutual and equal. Although one is Dominant, the other willing gives up control.
This of course is a widely held belief in the community, but I seem to be coming acros more and more "damaged" subs. What I mean by this is that they have been train and conditioned by bad Doms. Doms who's only interest in the lifestyle is to take full advantage of subs. To me this is just plain wrong, and is making me more and more angry.
You need a licence to drive, these bad Doms are making me think that a licence to Dom might be for the best.
Would some form of education for Doms, and a qualification be in everyone's best interest?
Would subs be safer if a prospective Dom was vetted by their peers?
I know there are places you can train in the ways of the Dom, but perhaps a lifestyle wide agreement that you can't be called a Dom unless you have been on one of these training courses is needed.
I would gladly submit to such a course to improve the lifestyle for all, but I what my fellow Doms think of such a system.
Your thought will be greatly appreciated"