Update: March 2019 I have been celibate (my own choice) for a little over 4 and a half years now. I don't see my decision changing, possibly ever. I just gave up on the bullshit that goes along with a relationship, I have ZERO interest in it anymore. I'm not here for ANY type of hook up.

Seriously, if I pay you a compliment, know that it's from the heart. Nothing more, nothing less.

... If you still want to be friends, read on...


Just a human on the journey. Some days it sucks....some days are fabulous lessons in the pleasure of being alive. I love nature and all that it offers us to see and experience, children and my elders that have wisdom and patience, or wide eyed enjoyment of all that is new. People can determine their own path as long as they are not lead or lied to by another. I try to live and love each day as a chance to try to heal old wounds, and not inflict any on others. I regret much and savor much of how my life is going. I have children....I love them with all my heart, and would die for them without hesitation or remorse. I would like to have more lifelong friends, as of now, just a few worthy of that title exist. I hope to find more.

I want to meet...

People with a heart, smarts, and a will to live, not just exist at the cost of others. Anyone is welcome to join in the journey....lead, follow or get out of the way! Life passes too quickly to wait in "traffic", bring a friend and enjoy. I want to meet real, honest humans that like themselves and love life. Fast and hard or slow and easy...just enjoy.

Peace, Love, And Good Happiness Stuff,

~Derrick