My name is Jennifer. I am a single female and mom of 5. I stand at 5'1 and weigh about 248lbs. I am your typical female, and just because I think before I act and speak doesnt make me an angel; and I do have a lot of blonde moments (more than average I guess lol). I dont like the bars or the club scene. Been there, done that, just not interested at this time in my life. Although, some forget, drunken words are sober thoughts. I can get an attitude at times. But if you cant handle me at my worst, then you dont deserve me at my best. I believe everything happens for a reason; and when things dont go your way, its opening the door for something even more wonderful to happen. I believe in karma; and what you do to others comes back on you in ways you cant imagine. And on a greater scale. I dont trust easily. I dont like playing games. I'm finally realizing that you dont need certain people in your life to be complete or whole. That the games and drama and secrets and lies just arent worth having them around. I love proving people wrong. The secret is remaining strong while everyone else expects you to fall apart. I've learned that best friends become strangers overnight. That the one saying, "I love you!" could be saying it to someone else. I've learned not to worry about people from my past. There is a reason they didnt make it into my present. And never dwell on the past. Deal with it, accept it and forgive those in it. Why? Because it made you who you are today. Just never forget the lessons learned; otherwise history has a way of repeating itself. I have my own apartment and I own my car. I am a State Tested Nurses Assistant.

I am looking for a single male, age 30-45, for a friendship and/or relationship. No games, no live in females (girlfriends, ex-wife), no drama. Someone who is going to make us a priority. Basicaly I look for honesty, communication, and loyalty! Someone who is going to have my back when things are crazy. Someone who is going to stand by through the bad times as well as the good. Someone who will stand up for me, even when I am wrong. Someone who can show his feelings. I need a strong man! A good man! A good provider! A soul mate! Someone who will love me for me, and not want to change me into what he thinks I should be! Honestly, gentlemen, what you see, is what you get! Period! If you dont like me for me, keep it movin! I am a strong female, who has stood on her own for the last 16 years. Having kids is not an issue. How many kids is not an issue. As long as you take care of your kids, financially and otherwise, we can deal. I want someone I can trust, communicate with, laugh with, and someone who will be honest regarless of the situation. I need someone who will be proud to stand up and say, "Hey, thats my girl!" And I can offer the same. I am a good person/woman who will do what it takes to keep her man happy. I will do for you as long as you do for me. You have respect for me, and I will give it to you. If you have any questions, please dont hesitate to ask. And please remember just because I talk to you, it doesnt mean I'm going to sleep with you. Have a wonderful day!

I am the real deal and would love to see you try and break me.