Welcome and thanks for taking the time to visit my site. Please take the time to read all of this and take a look around before you make any quick judgement about me. I'm not here to find the love of my life or a new wife I have that already. Now that you know this you can't say I am hiding anything. I am Happily Married and have no desire to change that. I am here to make friends, have fun, and grab life by the BALLS and LIVE it. It doesn't matter how old you are, what sex you are, what color you are, whether you are gorgeous or rich, or even your sexual preference as long as you can be real and sincere then you are worth being a friend with. I am not going to sit here and brag how wonderful I am and try to impress you with meaningless bullshit. People like that are only going to be sad and lonely in the end. I am me plain and simple... no flash, games, no bull. I believe in one simple rule... Be You, Be Real, Be Happy.I am going to be happy no matter what. Anyone that wants to share in the smiles and laughs are welcome to join me. You can count on Honesty and Total Bluntness from me. If you can't run with the Big Dogs, Stay on the porch. So are you daring enough to make a new REAL FRIEND or are you going to ride life in the Kiddie Lane?Oh and to make it clear to those who assume and judge before really knowing someone... this is NOT ABOUT SEX... it's about standing up for yourself and being the person you really are. I've been through it and all I am trying to do is help others. Is that so wrong? Again I'm 45, very HAPPILY MARRIED, have 3 children, a dog, and 3 cats. Sometimes I don't know which is harder to handle the children or the damn pets... lol. Love coaching sports as well as playing them. I may be 44 but I have the heart of a 21 yr old and I'm gonna enjoy myself no matter what others say or think. I work as a Designer for a Cable TV Co (basically doing street mapping) and have been there 18 yrs. Yeah looks like I am a lifer... lol. I knew the Internet was full of Fakes and Players just never imagined there were so many of them. If I had to describe myself in 5 words I would say... Honest, Caring, Open-Minded, Funny, and Humble. I am who I am and don't believe in games or trying to be someone I'm not. Don't like it? Not my problem, click the HOME link and go somewhere else. ¢¾