TIME OUT ALREADY... Does anyone ever take time to really read what people write? Please take a minute or two and read what is next before you go asking to add me as a friend.News Flash Fellow Tappers... We interrupt your programming for the following IMPORTANT message.This is CherryTap not MySpace. I am not here to have a Friggin Friends List that can circle the planet Earth. If you want to be friends you need to consider a few things first.Have you said "Hi" to me or just peeked at my profile and decided I was an easy target to get a few points by adding me as a friend?Have you really read what I have here in my profile and blogs. Can you tell me the name of the newest member of my family?Did you look at my personal info? Know I am married, not looking for anything but REAL Friends. Also did you look at my pic? I may not be a Hunk Model but it doesn't mean I am hard up for friends either. So I can and will be selective on who I accept. Remember this is MY WORLD and I am not here to entertain you.It's not totally about looks, but to a point that does factor in. Hey deal with it I am human and their are worse people out there so don't get on me about it.We have to have something in common... married, children, pets, tattoos, creativity, and interests. Most of all you have to be real and want to have a friendship in which we actually communicate from time to time.As I said I am not here for the rating, points, or monumental friend lists. One real friend is worth 100 fake ones. So save yourself the time and humiliation. If you don't match up with anything I mentioned above... DON'T ASK ME TO BE A FRIEND.Thank You... I will now return you to your regularly scheduled programming. Imperfection is beauty. Madness is genius. And it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than ridiculously boring.Well here we are 2007 a brand new year. Time for new starts and resolutions... lol. Just think how many we'll break or modify before even the first month has gone by.Hi, the name is Tom and it's a pleasure meeting you. I'm 45 and married to a woman I never thought I would find. (It's the 2nd time around but hey we can't all get it right the 1st time.) I have 2 daughters (1st marriage) 1 son (step but I hate that word so he's my son) 1 dog and 3 cats. Welcome to my insanity... LMFAO. **Update already... lol. Make that 2 dogs and 3 cats.** My wonderful wife treated me to a surprise for Christmas (early though) and got me a female German Shepherd/Austrailan Shepherd mix puppy. So check out her pics under Baylie's in the House... lol.I decided that with the new year a new ABOUT ME should be done along with some other changes. So bare with me while I am changing and updating things. In the meantime I left some old info here that still applies.You know it doesn't really matter if people on here like me or not. I didn't do this to be part of a throw back to High School Popularity contests. To me having a few Real Caring Friends means more then hundreds that won't even remember my name. With that said I am starting to go through my Friends List and clean it out. Don't be offended or take it personal if I delete you. It's probably because we barely if ever talk and I don't see the need to keep people on my list if that's the case.