Grr's blog: "Grr Muses"

I like to think that we've all had those moments where it seems like no matter what we do, nothing changes. Or perhaps you find yourself in similar situations on an overly recurring basis. One example I can think of off the top of my head, is women that tend to date the same tyoe of guy repeatedly, but lament how they wasnt something different. I don't know why that situation struck me, but it did. Anyway, it's taken me a long time to realize that situations like this are not a mater of the situation or the obstacle itself. It's far more internal than that. In order to change these types of recurring or ongoing battles, one must take an honest look inside one's self, and see if maybe this wall isn't one that is self made. We all put these blocks up in our mind. For this, that, the other thing. More often than not these are made up of assumptions, pre-conceptions, and previous experience. The trick to affecting change, is to shift your focus to own motivation, drive, and expectations, and see if maybe you have been looking at it the wrong way all along. More often than not, I know that I have been.

               ~Grr 7/14/15