Communication in a realation to me is probablly the most important aspect. Whether the relationship is just friends or an intimate relationship. Communication is what determines the type of relationship that you have. Communication is like the embers of a fire. Those smoldering yet hot coals is the basis of a true friendship that has each others back but when the fire rages is when you take that foundational relationship to the next step of becoming seclusive with that special person. Furthermore once you reach that stage of a relationship communication becomes more then mere words. It envelopes all the senses as well as eye contact and body language. Now if I could only find a single woman who thinks the way I do.