Someone hurt you...so what to do now?? I have been in love once in my life..just once and the damage that I allowed that relationship to inflict on me is something I still struggle with to this day. So how do you let go of that? I'm trying to..this is what I have come up so far. Its a special kind of pain when someone you care for hurts you..and hurts you knowingly. It hurts on so many levels. And when you finally step away from that and start working through the damage, you are left with anger...at yourself and at them. And all you can do is let it go. Everyone who comes into your life comes there to teach you something about you...learn the lesson, bless them for it, and let them and the pain go. I'm working on it..its a work in process. You can be mad and look for "closure" or you can get up and go on with your life. When you know you did all you could, and were all you knew how to be, you learn the lesson you were meant to learn and let it go.