After talking to some people, mainly seeing their views and opinions on regards to this subject, I began to realize something about most people. They’re weak. The reason why I say this is because some of the people that I have talked to about not having sex for certain periods of time, they always seem to cringe in disgust for time periods that don’t even seem that long. For instance, I will admit that I went without sex for two years at one time, and when I told some people this, they got into a spew of saying “ Oh, man I would die if that ever happened to me,” or “How could I do something like that?” and so on. I don’t know, maybe it’s just me on how I think about this sort of subject, but come on, there were some people that would say it would be horrible to not have sex in just a couple months! That, in my opinion, is quite sad. I mean, not having sex in a few months isn’t going to kill you. Honestly, it might even help some people out there as well, considering how our society is when it comes to sex. Maybe those few months can kind of wind down your craving for sex a little bit. I’m not saying that sex is bad and shouldn’t be done, but it shouldn’t be someone’s mind twenty four hours of the day. If that was the case, I don’t think I would even hang out with that sort of person because to me, if sex is your number one priority in life and nothing else then you just need to be locked in a room for a while until you can get your mind out of the gutter. I mean, if you don’t have any other hobbies or any kind of priorities of life but have sex is honestly quite sad. I’m not saying sex is bad, but just doing it too much just sort of makes it boring after a while, and someone doing it all the time not interested in hanging out with. However, from looking into my past experiences on going through some abstinence periods, I began to realize that in the end, it was my choice not to have sex in those time periods. Even when I didn’t have sex for two years, I saw that I had numerous opportunities to have sex, but chose not to. I may sound a bit cocky about this, but sometimes you have to be. Mostly, it’s not being cocky, but being confident. For years, I thinking I was deprived from having sex, but in the end it was my choice. And surprisingly, there are other people that have chose not to sex as well, even if they don’t even realize it. But either way, when it comes down to it, which everyone will agree with me, nobody likes to hear someone’s sob story that they haven’t gotten laid in a week or two or any amount of time. After a while, it just sounds very stupid.
