SPC Reverend Bakie's blog: "The Classics"

Now that we have come to the final chapter of my blogs about Romance and Relationships, or at least for now. I'll be doing a recap in the next blog on all the topics I have covered. But now, I wanted to touch base on another thing that is important in a relationship. On doing something that is sexual, you don't ever, I mean never, force your partner into doing something that that he/she don't want to do. This is actually one of my pet peeves in life. I mean, this bullshit has always pissed me off, because, first off, forcing someone to do something sexual against their will is rape, even if you are going out or married to this person, it's rape. No questions asked. Rape has got to be one of the worst things a person can do to someone. In my opinion, I think rape is worse than murder. I mean, in some situations, the victim might as well be dead than to live with that agony for the rest of their life. Anyway, I have heard numerous stories about this happening around couples. For instance, their is this girl that my girlfriend is friends with, and about six months ago she was going out with this piece of shit con and one night he decides to have anal sex with her even though she said she didn't want to. Let me mind you, not that I have anything against anal sex, but the point is that you don't force someone into that kind of situation. I was even suprised she didn't call the police on him or even kick his stupid ass out of her house! But then again, she is not one of the brightest crayons in the box. But that's another story. Anyway, the point is you just don't do that kind of shit to a person. Even if it's the woman trying to force a guy into something he doesn't want to do is wrong. Honestly, I wouldn't want my girlfriend to force anything on me. I know she hasn't, but just the point. Usually, I always consider this, if there is something my girlfriend doesn't like that I like I think of this; it wasn't ment to be done. Easy as that. And I just don't think about it. Actually how I see it is what you did before with someone else should stay with that person. I mean, that was what you shared with that person and the person you are currently with you just share something different with. I guess it's kind of a way to not remind yourself of who you had sex with before. That's just how I see it. Also, another thing, depending on sexual position or location, it's maybe good not to it for the sake of a relationship. For instance, there are some things I did before that were kind of "Outside the Box", but the people I did those things with were not into relationships at all. They were just people that were moving around person to person, so it seemed in my opinion. But they just didn't take relationships very seriously and they weren't into settling down just yet. So here's another point to go with that; If you are in a very good relationship and want to stay in one, it will have to take some sacrifices on doing so. In other words, you just have to sacrifice some things in order keep a good relationship going. At least I think so.