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Ok, something lighter — Tuesday, May 08, 2007
It's just a borring wasted day. I should have done something productive today. However, I didn't. Maybe tomarrow. I was thinking and doing stupid internet stuff, and wrote about my dating outllook.
It somewhat combined the long thing I was going to write about sexistness, and modern views, and people want to have the best of both worlds now a days sometimes. They want the pros form the yesteryears without the cons, and the pros of today too.
The " perfect woman " - One who cooks has meals ready when the man gets home unless she's at work, cleans, takes care of the children, has a great job, is nice to you, and caters to all your whims. She also doesn't " get out of line " and "knows her place ", accepting the man as the patriarch. LOL
The " perfect man " - One who has a good job, treats women " like a lady ", opening doors, uses the proper language, pays for everything, protector and provider type, allows women their freedom of speach and such, cooks atleast half the time, does their share of the housework, knows about cars and powertools and stuff, helps take care of the kids, doesn't " put women in their place " .
I'm not either of these. That's the short version of what I was going to write. Obviously I'm not completly serious when I say perfect. I'm just trying to explain what I mean when I say the best of both worlds.
With that in mind, this is my outlook as of this hr or so. It often changes though.
Hey, just extremly bored.
view on dating things right now:
I am a bored college student. I'm quiet, and weird. Some people think I"m interesting and smart. But it seems to be a matter of opinion. I'm mostly honest. Some people don't think of me as nice because I am so honest. But I don't usually vollunteer negative views. I do usually share them when I'm asked specificly about them. If you look fat, and you ask me if you look fat, I'll probably tell you that you are fat. And if I don't say that, YOu'll probably tell that's what I'm thinking anyway, cuz I'm bad at liaring. Don't ask me about stuff if you don't want to know how I really feel.
I'm weird, I"m not like most people, and especially not like most guys. If you want a normal person who only calls you when they are drunk or horny, or both, don't talk to me. YOu'll be very dissapointed. I may not treat you " like a lady " but I won't be possessive, keep you in the kitchen making me pie, or smack you when you get out of line. I'll treat you as an equall. If you think you are better than me, and so should be treated as something more than an equall; you might be right, but you probably just have issues. I'll have to decied that one for my self.
I'm looking for someone to spend some time with when I have time to spend on things other than school. Someone that will help me study would be good too. I'd love to meet those people who really are better than me, but not those people who just think they are better than everyone else.
