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????????????: crawls minx-like over the duvet and throws a coy glance over her shoulder.?
????????: stares bashful at her and giggles, putting his hand shamefully over his mouth.?
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????????: slips under the duvet and reaches for his phone to look at the latest news.?
How many times have you had these kinds of bedroom dynamics with your partner??
An exchange like this often is a source of frustration for both men and women everywhere. Why? ?
That’s actually quite simple...?
Men and women do not know how to be attractive to each other anymore. And it is this lack of attraction that often appears in modern relationships, after the initial butterfly storm is over.?
But there is a secret to maintaining the passion in emotional, sexual relationships.?
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Sexual attraction is based on sexual polarity, which is the force of passion that arcs between the masculine and feminine poles.?
This force of passion creates the flow of sexual feeling. ?
If you want real attraction, electricity, and excitement, you need a ravisher and a ravishee, otherwise you just have two buddies who only rub genitals in bed.?
The love may still be strong, the friendship may still be strong, but the sexual polarity fades. Unless in moments of intimacy one partner is ready to play the masculine pole and one partner is set to play the feminine pole. ?
Just as with electromagnetic polarity, sexual polarity by definition requires two polar entities to create the energy between them: the masculine and the feminine. ??
The electrical charge of energy is conducted when the “masculine” pronged plug is inserted into the “feminine” receptive outlet. Two masculine plugs can hang out together, can even have a romantic relationship, but they don’t create sexual polarity and most of the time the spark between them is somewhat dulled out.??
Men and women alike all carry both masculine and feminine characteristics and energies, though the ratio of these energies varies greatly among different people. This ratio of masculine vs. feminine is described as a person’s “sexual essence,” and it is the foundation of their true sexual core. ??
The feminine is pure, boundless and moves freely without any particular direction. It is directionless but immense, ever changing, beautiful and sometimes destructive. The feminine is the force of life and source of inspiration. The feminine moves in all directions, the masculine moves in one direction. The feminine needs the masculine to give it direction, focus and purpose.?
The masculine needs the energy of the feminine to give it drive and passion. The masculine and the feminine need each other. The masculine directs while the feminine projects. This is the relationship of yin and yang.?
Educate yourself on sexual polarity. Find out which role you predominantly play, based on your energetic pole. Find out which role your partner predominantly plays.?
What are you attracted to in woman??
What do you find irresistible in men??
These questions you can answer as a male and a female. It gives you crucial information about your stance in sexual polarity.?
Slow down again, and feel your body, your strength and your heart.?
Only if you can connect to and be intimate with yourself, others can connect to and be intimate with you as well.
