Oh HELL...I've been suckered in by all 3 types...
Player Type #1) The "Ego-Driven" Player
These are the guys who want or need attention
from multiple women because it feeds their ego
and makes them feel better about themselves. They
aren't necessarily bad guys, and often develop
deep connections with the women they're with...
but they're shameless flirts that usually don' t
know any better than to live their lives seeking
approval and validation from lots of women. And
the affection of a woman and sex is their ultimate
form of getting approval. You'll find these guys
constantly in and out of short "relationships",
but never making any of them work out... because
it's really all about them.
Player Type #2) The "Social" Player:
These are the guys who make a career out of
learning how to pick up women and it becomes
their favorite evening pastime. They're in it for
more of the challenge and experience than they
are for the actual "connection" with the women
they meet. You'll find them out partying all the
time, always going somewhere, always having a
woman to call, and never spending a night home
alone. These are the types who rarely, if ever,
have real girlfriends and relationships.
Player Type #3) The "Intimate" Player:
These guys are seeking something purely physical
from a woman, and don't have much else on their
mind... but they mask it by being very friendly
and loving when they're in the company of a woman.
But it isn't really love for them. They're often
the most sensual and artistic types, and charm
women with their ability to be in touch with their
feelings and their ability to make a woman
comfortable with intimate contact soon after they
meet. You'll find these guys dating lots of women
at one time and feeling no need to "commit," nor
seeing a reason to. They're very open one night,
and casual and detached the next.