Ok so it has been a really long time since I have posted a blog anywhere, in fear that it will be read by people who shouldn't read it and twisted around to further help them.
I have been going through court and all kinds of crazy shit to keep my son. It's been the worst 2 years of my life. I feel like I am on a never-ending rollercoaster. I am right at the point where you think you're gonna puke...but can't.
My ex thinks he can basically black-mail me into giving in and giving up my rights as a mother. Well I am going to fight tooth and nail to keep my son. I know I am not a perfect mom, but honestly who is? Even the snooty bitches in huge houses who can buy anything and everything for their kids are far from perfect. My point is I know I am a good mom. My kids are well taken care of and get just about anything they could ever want (when I have the money to get it). They are clothed, bathed, housed, fed and loved. We don't live in filth, our house is moderately clean like just about anyone else's. I say moderately because how clean could you possibly get a house to be with kids in it 24/7??
The main focus now with my ex is that my bf is on parole. Ok yeah not a good thing, however he's making an attempt at changing his life around for the better. He wasn't locked up for CSC or anything sexual related with anyone. It was stupid kid shit that caught up with him. But all my ex looks at is the fact that he was in prison. It doesnt help that my bf smokes pot, but I don't and my kids have never been exposed to it EVER and I plan on keeping it that way as long as I possibly can. Did I metion my ex has a job where he is gone for months at a time, yet is suing me for custody? Makes no sense to me but to the effed up Rogers City Judge and court it doesnt seem to matter at all...I dont get it.
My ex is a good dad, when he is there. He is an alcoholic though, along with the rest of his family which is who they want to take care of a 3 year old? Compared to me who does not drink or do any drugs of ay sort? WTF? What is wrong with this picture here? I seem to be the only one who thinks that because Rogers City is so small and everybody knows everybody and my ex's family KNOWS the JUDGE handling our case, that there is a little bit of bias. It was initially brought up first day in court last summer but it was thrown out because the judge felt it necessary to tell us all he didnt know them well enough to play favorites. My lawyer figured just like we all did that we would not be back in court after that so we did not appeal (money was a big part also) So here we are over a year later and countless court dates with no resolution. Last year we made what we thought to be the final decision in custody which was basically the best for everyone. When my sons dad was home he got to see him the whole time he was off and when he went back I got him back. With four weeks spread out for my sons gradparents. I thought that was more than fair..but then the new bf. Everything went to hell once the ex for some reason did a background check on him...I still have no clue why he did. Anyway...I am done ranting...I will go on forever if I dont stop now.
Thanks for reading...if anyone in fact did read this.
