well I was married for 3 years and separated on my 3rd year on the day!!! I dont know what will happen because He didnt know what he really wanted to do, but I think maybe he did. Things just didnt work out anymore, thats why its very important to have comunication. Thats something we lacked. well Moday will be a week but we didnt see each other for 3 weeks until Friday night. and it was like nothing ever happend I didnt feel strange with him coming by but after he left I missed him still. I hope we can work things out but until then I will take care of me and my girls.