My name is Jess and I am the oldest of 6 kids in an Irish Catholic family. My family is my world! They may sometimes bug the shit out of me,but that makes it worth all the while. We all have such different personalites, and the family dynamics are nuts! I am a massage therapist and waitress/bartender. I grew up in St Louis Missouri and I now live in So Cal in Encinitas Cali, about 20 minutes north of San Diego. I love my new living situation and being so close to the ocean for meditation purposes and for the pure beauty of it. I am huge on respect for every living human being. I think so much of the pain and sorrow we have in the world would be gone if we all just respected each other and accepted that we are all different and that is OK. I get very emotional when I talk about this subject, because I love all the differences and the beauty that all walks of life add to our world.