Hello I'm a single black male searching for a woman who is seeking a guy who is funny, outgoing, and knows how to be romantic. Lets face the fact that we are on this site in hopes of connecting with someone.

Some would say I'm picky but I'm at a point in my life where I know the type of woman that I would like to meet. She has a smile that you can't wait to see in the morning before starting your day. She loves to laugh and has this way of getting you to stop to enjoy life.


She has an inner beauty that is so amazing that she is very confident and sexy. She likes to cuddle, hold hands, and get a kiss anytime anywhere just because her man loves her more than anything else in this world. She loves a man that will work hard to communicate with her and not be afraid to hear the truth. She wants to feel appreciated for the things she does to help our relationship grow stronger. She has or wants to have a family and yes pursue a career, which is something I will support with all my heart.

Some basic stuff about me: I was born in Gary, Indiana but raised in Long Beach, California where I spent most of my young adulthood years. Yes, I have never been married and that has been by choice. If this fact is a red flag for you please move on to someone else.

Please note that I'm not afraid of commitment, I just needed to grow into a man that a good woman would love to have as a best friend, husband, lover and partner. I do wish to get married in the future. I feel that the timing is right and I'm so proud of the man I have become over the years.

You should know that I have been in the military for over 15 years. Serving this country has been challenging and rewarding at the same time for me.

Military life has prepared me for dealing with people of; different races , cultures, and living in different kinds of conditions around the world. I've had to work with people to accomplish team goals which has giving me the confidence to reach my own goals. But sadly in 5 years it will be time to hang up the Army boots forever to pursue a second career.

So please take a few moments to write back if you feel we might have a connection or you would like to be friends.