why marriage is poisonous to sexual energy
marriage is a practical arrangement.... two people agree to share responsibilities, chores, expenses because they care about each other and feel that they want similar things out of life. the fiery sexual energy that the couple starts out with an incredible motivator. it has to be b/c that's what keeps the species proliferating.
but that intensity, that omg-i-want-u-now type priority is trumped by practical things over time. the urgency of the mortgage and the parent-teacher meetings become bigger than urgency of sexual connection. i've been married twice. faithful marriages both times. but i prefer to take care of my own practical arrangements and have a woman in my life for fun, for company, for friendship and especially for sexual exploration and satisfaction. marriage is just the opposite... i get her help with the practical shit, but wind up taking care of my own sexual needs. no contest if you ask me.
