im not being rude but if you was not submissive to your ex Hubby or Bf what would make you submissive to me?. if you would not listen to them what would make you listen to me?. I'm very pick cause i have walk in between the path of good and evil and still here standing strong. we all have opinions. i stand on mine till i am proven wrong. if your pasta tell you there is no such thing as bad luck we not on same page and I'm good if you believes a promise is a comfort to a fool your loyalty is not to anyone but yourself. my opinion we get married there is no such thing as tired or can do this. the moment i swear under the Creator name there is no going back so that mean I have to do what ever it take realistically to make you happy and make this work. when i was younger i dated. Now at 36 years old i dont have time for that. I either accept you for who you are or I don't. right now i feel people energy. the moment we meet you have to be will to accept the person as they come