Making Yourself More Attractive To Women
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I just had to tell you how great your stuff is.
I got your first email (ten things most guys do)
and before I finished reading the list went to the
site and ordered the book. I figured what can I
lose, I don't have success now and I spent more
then $40 on my last date and they offer a 100%
money back deal. I read it as soon as I
downloaded it then read it again the next day, of
course went and bought comedy writing secrets the
3rd day and read that the same afternoon. I have
to tell you I was clueless before I read your
book. I would naturally get a few women attracted
to me when I wasn't trying because I didn't have
interest in them and would bust on them for my own
amusement. Of course when ever I got a date I
would turn into major WUSS boy and due all the
things I shouldn't. I now understand and it all
makes perfect sense. The best part about your
system is that it's not trying to manipulate women
it's teaching you how to make yourself more
attractive to them. I still have a lot to learn
but it's only been a week since I ordered the book
so I'm well on my way. WUSS boy no more. On to
the success, remember it's just the first week so
it's still minor success right now.
I'm naturally introverted so coming up with spur
of the moment funny is somewhat of a problem (I'm
working on it everyday). With that said I decided
to get some practice with online personals. I had
already posted a profile before so I went back
made some modifications and started sending
emails. I did ok with my own cocky/funny responses
but it was taking a little to much time to write
the emails... I started taking some of your
examples and modifying them to my own needs. So
far I'm at about a 90% response rate, and I'm only
sending emails to the best looking girls on there
who have obviously gotten a lot of emails. One of
the responses I just got today (she looks like
about a 9.5 from her pics) was:
"Hey...as far as I know I am fairly normal....I
think!!! I'm kinda in a hurry so I can't really
write much right now...sorry but I will definitely
get back to you Mr. Cuteness! (God this stuff is
great, I'm gonna have some fun with this one!)"
Also one of the dates I went on only a day or
two after reading your stuff went great. I had
her laughing the entire time and even had her
telling me about her sex toys. (Most women I know
like to talk about sex just as much as guys so if
you can bring it up in a cocky/funny way you can
have some great conversation.) Anyway, on to the
end. I new I wasn't really interested in her so I
cut it short and didn't take things to the next
step, but it was great practice and I got an email
the next day saying how much she enjoyed herself
and that I am naturally charismatic and that if I
didn't vibe her the same way she still wants to
hang out. Oh I don't want to forget, I used the
you want me thing and had her blushing. Needless
to say I'm about to start having a lot of fun.
Thanks for giving me that great big He-Bitch-Slap
and smacking the wuss out of me.
Forever Grateful (I know wussie closing),
D at the UofA
P.S. For those of you who haven't done it: READ
You're welcome for the He-Bitch-Man-Slap.
We all need one at some point in life.
Glad I could help.
I appreciate your comment about my materials
not being about manipulating women... but instead
being about becoming ATTRACTIVE to women.
Most men don't get this distinction, but once
you DO get it, an entirely different world opens
up... and all kinds of things become available
that weren't before.
Another side note: I was just like you when I
got started. The Cocky & Funny comments didn't
come quickly and naturally to me.
I practiced a lot online, chatted with a lot of
women, etc. to polish up my skills.
It didn't help that I had to also FIGURE OUT
what Cocky & Funny even WAS to begin with... but I
feel where you're coming from.
Stay with it. You're on the right track.
Your material is awesome! It has completely
changed my dating and it's results! I lost a
really hot girlfriend late last year, and it
wasn't until I started reading your newsletters
that I finally understood what went wrong. I
wussed out, completely. "I just need some room to
find myself. It's not you, it's me." Man you were
literally quoting my gf!
But now I get it. In the last few months I have
been able to get phone numbers every time I go
out, if I want to. I get chicks to buy ME drinks
now, and had one girl force her number on me!
Gotta love that. Even some of the girls with
boyfriends I hang out with every now and then are
saying I'm cocky, and pull the o'l hit me on the
shoulder and give me the "I can't believe you just
said that" look, with a big smile of course. Man
everything you have said makes perfect sense, and
really works! I got my first date from an online
dating service by replying to this chick with a
very cocky and slightly funny statement that I
mostly intended to drive her away. She wrote back
saying I was way too cocky, but you know what? She
went out with me! MUAHAHAHAAA.
I haven't found the right girl yet, but your
techniques have helped me weed out more wrong ones
in the last few months than in the last few years
before! And I can't describe how cool it feels to
have a stack of numbers that I will never call,
but know I could if I wanted too.
I'm about to get your e-book, so I'll keep you
updated on how well that works.
One question though, what's your deal with tea?
Thanks, CL - Dallas, TX
lol.... what's my deal with tea?
It's classy, cheap, and quick. And you can
escape if she winds up being crazy.
Try it, you'll like it.
Iced tea is acceptable as well, by the way...
Now, you said a lot of great stuff in your
You're not the only guy who's heard those
painful words "I need to find myself" and "It's
not you, it's me". Yeah, right.
Well, now that you understand ATTRACTION
better, you'll definitely be preventing that in
I enjoyed your story about the online personal
date... and how she said that you were too cocky,
then WENT OUT WITH YOU.
Now you're getting it...
And I like the way you think... you haven't
found the right girl YET, but by beginning to
understand ATTRACTION you've been able to weed out
the ones who aren't right for you FASTER.
When you read my book, make sure and pay close
attention to the bonus report that comes with it
called "The 8 Personality Types Of Men Who Are
Naturally Attractive To Women".
That guide will help you understand how to keep
the girl you want... when you do find her.
Thanks for the email.
A nod to the 33rd degree Mason of Women! I
wasn't sure I'd be convinced, but you have done
it. Kudos, my man!
I'm 30 and I always felt that I was GOOD with
women, and many of my mates have come to me for
advice, but I really wanted to be (and KNEW) that
I was capable of so much more. I bought the book,
read it front to back, TWICE in one weekend, and
went out ASAP to practice. Long story short, it
works. I've always been C+F, but when confronted
by a stunner (a 9 or a 10) I often felt as though
the Force had left me. Not so any more. I got
emails left and right, had a few dates, but
usually by date 3 I had shelved the C+F. Needless
to say, there was no date 4. And then I met this
AMAZING hottie, a beautiful 20 year old with a
body that EVERY guy dreams of touching (believe
it!). * *We were walking down the street coming
back home from the beach (only 3 blocks) and 4
different times along the way, guys were literally
turning their heads to look at her, and 1 guy
actually looked at her, then looked at me, back at
her again and said "DAMN!" and gave me a nod.
AWESOME! :D I felt like the man! Then, on the
next block, two dudes were whistling and yelling
down from their balcony at her "Yo baby, you're
hot!" and so I broke out the C+F and yelled back
"Thanks dude, but I'm taken!" She busted a gut! It
was too funny! Your techniques really are worth
more than gold. It made such an impression on her
that out of the blue she began laughing a few days
later and when I asked her what was so funny, she
said "I was just thinking about what you said to
those guys on the balcony. That was SO FUNNY!"
Constant C+F= constant sex and admiration from
her. It's the most basic math. We've only been
together for 2 months, but she's already told me
how she has never felt so much for someone in so
short a period of time, and that it really
surprises her how quickly she became hooked on me.
You are the man! I'm now considering selling
some of my stuff to buy your DVDs...
Peace from Down Under, JB in Australia.
I LOVE to get letters like yours. Love it.
You mentioned one of the ULTIMATE ways to
handle it when other guys "compete" with you for
the girl you're with...
The thing that really screws things up for most
guys when this happens is letting it take them off
balance... and screw up their composure.
By laughing it off, or even making fun of the
guys who are trying to make their move, you wind
up coming off even MORE powerful.
Congratulations on finding a great girl. I'm
proud of ya, man!
This is O from Chicago sending you a quick
reminder to check out "The Maltese Falcon" with
Humphrey Bogart. This movie is just loaded with
quick comebacks for women's tests. Awesome. Thanks
so much for coming out to Chicago. Your seminar
was just incredible! All of your guest speakers
had a tremendous wealth of knowledge that I'm sure
will be benefiting from for years to come. Oh
yeah, you kicked ass too!
Ok here is a success story for ya: My roommate
and I went to a bar to visit a friend that worked
there. When we found out she didn't work there any
longer we decided to stick around for a couple of
drinks (it was our first time there). Well, we
just hated this place. The music sucked and the
people there were just kids from a nearby
college...The total frat mentality going on here.
Not my scene. So there's this cute Latin girl at
the bar with her friend who was so-so. Anyway, I
asked her if she actually came here often because
this place sucks! She was just like "Oh my god,
this place does not suck! My friend works here!".
Then I said "Yeah, well my friend USED TO work
here and I don't blame her for quitting". We
chatted for a bit and I made fun of her big ass
and called her a J-Lo wanna-be (thanks Dave, for
that one). Here is where it got really good: When
my roommate and I decided it was time to get the
hell out of there I asked her for her email. When
she said she didn't have one, I asked if she ever
used electricity and BAM! I get a huge laugh! So I
told her to give me her number and as she wrote it
down I drilled her by asking if this is a number
that she will actually answer. She writes 'MAYBE'
under the number. As soon as I saw that I was like
"Uhm, you know what? You can have this back, I
don't need it. It was nice meeting you, bye." My
roommate and I leave. The story doesn't end there!
Two weeks later, I get a call at work and it's
her! The piece of paper that she wrote her phone
number down was the back of my business card!
NICE! We've gone out a few times since then and
things are going great! I don't even have to call
her, she's calling me! Thank you, Dave!! You
deserve every bit of success that comes your way!!
This is a great story.
You've described a mysterious process that
happens once you begin to approach Jedi level with
There's something about walking away from a
woman, not calling her, etc. that triggers some
sort of mechanism that causes women to call at the
most unlikely times.
My experience is that there's some kind of 2-4
week timer in a woman's head that goes off if she
doesn't hear from you...
Again, I have no explanation for this
particular bizarre pattern, but it has happened to
me so many times that I can't believe it.
Women who have guys calling them day and night
will be walking through their house one evening
and all of a sudden think "Where is that one guy?
I have to call him... why isn't he calling me?".
Of course, as this begins to happen, you can
take this as a strong signal that you're beginning
to REALLY get it.
Thanks for the email, and thanks for coming to
my program in Chicago... and helping make it
Dear Dave d
My name is N, thank you for ur kind email. I have
had, for the past six years problems talking to
women. Often I approach one that takes my fancy in
a bar a nd she just laughs in my face, perhaps it
is my mullet and novelty beard but i dont want to
change my image as im happy with the way i look. I
also seem to find myself feeling sexually pent up
and this makes me more desperate and hence starts
a chain of cataclismic problems in which i just
frighten off any women by suggesting she "come
back to my place". I dont know how to leave this
vicious circle of dating desperation i have found
myself in. I was just wondering if you had any
advice for such a lost cause.
n (the potential loser)
Mullet and "novelty beard"?
The "potential loser"?
Yep, that's a real question, from a real
Sometimes I get emails from guys who say things
like "Are all those stories and emails you print
real? Or do you make them up?".
Well, I'm here to tell ya... I don't make any
of these stories and questions up... ever. Not
I mean, could I MAKE UP stuff like this? lol...
I would just like to say that your techniques
seem to be flawless. Maybe there's an exception or
two out there, but I haven't seen it. I used to be
the wuss of all wusses, but then I found your
materials. Great stuff. I learned it all, but it
took me a while to actually employ your strategies
because I was such a huge wuss before and lacked
the confidence and security to really attempt it.
Recently (within the past two months) I have taken
that step to actually practice what you preach,
and I've found it to be incredible. All I needed
was an attitude change. It was a lot like one of
the emails you included in a past mailbag, about
keeping that attitude of "next" with women. I just
decided that I absolutely did not care at all how
they reacted to anything I had to say. This simple
change gave me the power to say whatever I wanted
with women, and the whole cocky&funny routine just
naturally followed suit. It's great. Now I've got
women who just can't seem to get enough of me. All
you guys out there need to realize that David is
right. He's said time and time again that it
really doesn't matter what you say, but how you
say it, along with all your body language, and
when you realize that, you no longer worry about
what you say to women and everything becomes more
comfortable. And when you're comfortable,
cocky&funny is easy. So go out there and bag some
ladies! That is, if I don't first.
It doesn't matter what you say... it's HOW you
There, I said it again.
Thanks for the email. I appreciate it.
you know im not dissin you, im sure you provide a
good service, but i am a regular guy and i like to
do for others, especially women i like, and im not
gonna hide who i am , im a nice guy who does not
play games, ill admit i get played, sometimes, but
thats the price i have to pay for being such a
great guy. good luck and i hope that not too many
meaningless relationships come from your advice,
leading to a higher divorce rate.
IMPORTANT: I've included the above letter
because I want to use it to demonstrate the
attitude of a guy who is naturally UNSUCCESSFUL
This particular guy actually thinks that his
approach of "getting played a few times" because
"that's the price I have to pay for being such a
nice guy", is not only the best thing for him, but
also the best thing for everyone else.
Notice the "I hope not too many meaningless
relationships come from your advice" comment.
The subtle implication is that what I teach is
bad for relationships... and that "doing for
others" and "being a nice guy" are the ultimate
sacrifice and demonstration of your superiority.
Well, I have some sobering news, Mr. Smarty...
Your self image of a "great guy" who "does for
others... especially women you like" and who
"sometimes gets paid" but "that's the price you
have to pay for being such a great guy" is, in my
opinion, WAY OFF BASE.
Let's talk, can we?
When a guy "does especially nice things for
women he likes", he is attempting to MANIPULATE
Guess why you "get played"?
Right, because women can sense this
manipulative behavior, and they take advantage of
the perks without giving anything in return.
The only way to "get played" is to walk into a
relationship with a woman thinking that doing
unhealthy, unbalanced things like taking her out,
buying her things, and giving her gifts is the
"such a nice guy" thing to do.
Well, it isn't.
It's the SUCH A WUSSY thing to do.
It's the "I don't think a woman would just like
me for who I am, so I'm going to try to BUY her
attention, approval, and affection with gifts and
favors" thing to do.
And finally, your not-so-subtle suggestion that
the things I teach guys contributes to
"meaningless relationships" and "a higher divorce
rate" did not go unnoticed.
And guess what?
The reality is that YOU are the one who is
doing things that are leading to more "meaningless
relationships" and "a higher divorce rate".
Stop the insanity, man.
Women don't want Wussies! They don't want men
who have to BUY their attention and approval.
They don't want men who act like WOMEN.
They want men who act like MEN.
Do yourself a huge favor. Think this one over
carefully. I can tell that you're not TRYING to
manipulate women and do things that lead to a more
"meaningless relationship" and contribute to "a
higher divorce rate"... but you ARE.
Don't you hate it when people twist your words
around and use them against you?
Well, it's my job, so I have a good excuse.
You have been a god send the last few months
since i discovered your mailing list. It's been a
great daily reminder and motivator. But now i have
a kinda odd question. You've always taught that
attractive women are always approached and they
all have seen and heard all the lines. yata yata.
BUT what if i'm not normal and i don't chase after
hot model figures, but rather a down to earth,
pretty cute and nice, not to wild, doesn't even go
to bars much. Would your advice still apply. This
situation kinda reminds me of American Pie, where
one of the characters, i forget his name, has to
go after a not so hot, plain jane choir girl. I'm
sure if she was real, she would not have been
approached by as many guys as a hot girl would be
approached by. Does the cocky/funny attitude come
off as different for this type of girl, or just
kinda rude and pushy. Please include this in your
newsletter as i'm sure there's a bunch of guys out
there that don't always go after the head
cheerleader type. Do it for all of us nerds.
PS, One of my favorite tips in your book was to
watch James Bond movies and learn his posture and
attitude, etc. Its killer, i swear its worked like
gold for me. Lots of contact from females. woohoo
MO from KS
ANSWER: Yes, my advice will still apply. Now
quit TALKING about it and THINKING about it and
get out there and DO SOMETHING.
Find out for yourself.
The only one who can really validate this stuff
for you is YOU.
Go use the materials!
My name is Jason. I'm one of your recent
customers. I am reading your book on being
successful with women. There's a girl that I am
really falling for. She's a real sweet/nice one.
She's one in a million. Now, I read your book but
it only seems to be relevant if a guy wants to
find a one night stand or a little fling. I don't
mean to disrespect your writing. It's just that
I'm looking for something other than that typical
dating scene. I would just like to ask you to give
me some tips on getting a nice, down to earth
girl, and how to make it last. I know that you're
a busy man but I would really appreciate this. I
think she's the one.
Thank you very much.
Please also recommend some books for me to....be
really funny. Thanks
Yeah, DANGER WILL ROBINSON... DANGER!
Look, you sound to me like you're about to make
a HUGE mistake with this girl.
My materials are NOT directed at guys who only
want to get into "one night stands".
My book is directed at guys who want to learn
about how to make women feel ATTRACTION for them.
Now, if this girl is extra sweet, nice, etc.
and she's quiet, shy, and introverted, you'll
probably have to "turn things down" a bit.
But my guess is that YOU are the "extra sweet
and nice" one here... not her.
You're probably projecting all kinds of
imaginary ideas onto her, and you're probably
acting like a six-week-old puppy who lost his mom
when you're around her.
I'll tell you what...
See how well that strategy works for you, and
when she says "I like you so much as a friend that
I don't want to do anything to take a chance of
messing that up" (Translation: "I'm not feeling
any ATTRACTION for you"), refer back to my book.
My book teaches you to be INTERESTING... to be
UNPREDICTABLE... to be fun and challenging.
But it's your choice.
You get to make all the calls in your life.
If I were in your situation, I'd be doing the
things to make her feel ATTRACTION... not the
things that make her feel the "what a sweet guy"
Save all that for after you're in a
But again, it's your choice. It's your life. -
You have to do what you think is best, because you
are the one who gets to live with the results.
If I were in your shoes right now, I would
waste NO time getting your hands on my Advanced
Dating Techniques DVD program.
Just do it.
I don't care if you order it, watch the whole
thing 10 times, then send it back and ask not to
be charged. Just get it. You need it.
Well, you've done it. Your number one on my best
pal list. What can i say? About 3 months ago i
purchased your E-books. About am on a saturday
morning. I didn't have much planed for the day, so
i read, and read, then read some more, i could
feel the change whilst reading. (realization) I
could feel sparks in my head.
Saturday night i was buzzing. I was new and
improved and wanted to show it. I didn't over
dress like i normally do for a night out. Just
(ENGLAND) rugby shirt and jeans. I'm not sure what
happened but 4 girls i had never met and did not
know each other were hanging around me.
Basically i had told each one earlier whilst
being cocky and funny that "I know you like me i
can tell from your body language, But i don't
think you could handle me, How ever that girl over
there can (Just pointed to any other girl in
4 Girls were discretely trying to shove bits of
paper with numbers, e-mail's, etc. in my jeans.
3 months now and i'm still in contact with 3 of
them. But i may go for one in particular.
Its amazing. This is me. I've finally escaped
from mr nice guy. I still have loads to learn and
this girl may not be the one but thanks for the
I love stories like this one.
The reality is that we all have the potential
to go out and make this happen... it just comes
down to learning how to think, what to do, and how
to do it.
Your comment "This is me" was great.
It's great to "escape from Mr. Nice Guy", isn't
it? And it certainly doesn't hurt that women love
it when you escape as well...
Who made you an expert with women? You must be a
complete idiot to think that you have something as
complicated as the mind of a modern woman figured
Yeah, you're right. I suck.
I have no idea what I'm doing.
In fact, I'll tell you what I'm going to do...
I'm going to stop paying attention to the
hundreds and thousands of emails I get with
amazing success stories from all over the world...
many of which you're reading in this newsletter.
I'm going to just give up and stop even trying
to figure women out.
I'll tell you what... good luck with your
future interactions with women.
Sounds to me like you might need it.
Hey, buy a lottery ticket while you're at it...
thanks for all the fantastic advice. No God
references today, but I can't begin to imagine
where this stuff will actually take me. You rule!
I was invited to a party a few weeks ago by my
21 yr. old brother. I'm 27, so I was a little
apprehensive. You know how those parties go.
Anyway, the party was on the same night that I had
stumbled on to your material. I grazed over some
of the other success stories, absorbed what I
could and was off to the races.
I used one particular tactic in that mailbag and
I haven't been able to get rid of the girl. She
asked me how old I was. I scowled at her and
asked, "How much do you weigh?" The whole house
erupted in laughter. And the girl... well, you
know the rest.
I figured if it worked on and average-joe kind
of girl, why not try it on the sexy brainiacs I
can never get.
Right I/you were. Now on to a question, if I
Very attractive waitress at a pool hall I
frequent. Used the c/f tactic. Beautiful! Found
out whether or not she was single. Bingo! Talked
w/ her, teased the hell out of her. She even
neglected her customers so she could talk to me.
Perfect set up for ending it early. I told her she
wasn't going to make enough money to take me out
for drinks if she kept ignoring her tables.
Anyway, I found out what kind of music she
likes. Made her a cd, put some art work in the
case, (I thought that by making a cd and inserting
art she'd be more impressed that I spent the time
making something for her rather than buying her
some cheesy gift) put a note in it that read,
"You're probably not used to getting attention
from really, really, really good looking guys like
me. I just thought I'd give you a shot, see if you
could handle me. Drop me an email. Now!" Just
wanted to know how you felt about the way I
handled it. I'm a relatively confident person,
just wanted some feedback from the master. Thanks
J.B., Salt Lake City, Utah
Ohhhhh noooooooo.... NOOOOOO....
You did WHAT?
You made her a CD?
And put ARTWORK ON THE CASE?
Thinking that she'd be MORE IMPRESSED if you
SPENT THE TIME MAKING SOMETHING for her?
OK, go back to the end of the line.
You get a D minus.
The only reason I didn't give you an F was
because your story at the beginning was so
fantastic... and I admire the hell out of you for
USING WHAT YOU LEARNED.
OK, so let's talk, shall we?
Next time, do this:
Right after you've told her that she needs to
get back to work and make some money to take you
out, say "Here, write down your email and
number... and your name".
Then drop her an email the next day that says:
"Hey, I was just checking back with you... I
wanted to know how much you made last night. It
didn't look like you were making much money by
standing around talking to me, and if you wound up
coming home with no tips, then you're not going to
be able to take me out for a drink and keep me
surrounded by the type of lifestyle that I've
become accustomed to..."
No CDs, no art, no girlie behavior, OK?
Long before I ever knew about your book and
techniques, I met a model at a large automobile
and boat show. She was working one of the boating
manufacturers booths. As I walked by, she told me
I needed to get a Polaroid with her, only $5. This
woman was so unbelievably hot--from face to feet,
from front, side, rear, angle, you name it---
HOT!!! The most gorgeous human being I had ever
seen in person, period. This threw me into
funny/cocky/ I really don't care mode without even
knowing it. I politely told her I thought it was
"weird" to take a polaroid together, and what the
heck would I do with it anyway. We ended up
talking, as the show was a bit slow due to a snow
storm. At the time, I worked as a sales rep for a
cellular provider, and she was in the market for a
cell phone. I gave her my card and that was that.
Three months later, I get a phone call on my
cell phone, and it's her. She introduces herself,
asks if I remember her, and then she proceeds to
talk my ear off, non-stop for about 20 minutes. At
this point she says to me, "I'd like to take you
out to some clubs and blow your mind". I started
laughing, and she asked what I thought was so
funny. Now bear in mind that if the two of us were
to be seen in public together, it would look like
a kidnapping to the casual observer. She was
21---super super hot. A genetic marvel. I was 33,
tall (6'1") skinny (155lbs) bald (on top) with
glasses. No tan, no muscles, no hair, not even a
good dresser. So I told her what is so funny is
that her business card scoring system has a flaw
in it. That I certainly remember her, but she
apparently had mis-filed my business card into the
wrong pile. I actually said to her, "I'm an old,
tall, skinny, bald guy with glasses". She laughed
and said she remembered me perfectly--that I
looked her in the eyes when I spoke to her, and
that she thought I was cute.
So we got together that week, and I hooked her
up with a cell phone and plan, and we exchanged
numbers-- -obviously, I've got her cell #. I
never called her. What's the point I'm
thinking---she got what she wanted, a cell phone
and a deal--and I have mirrors in my house. 2
weeks later she calls and wants to know why I
haven't called her. I was polite, but not
concerned about it, told her It didn't make sense
for us to go out, etc. We ended up getting
together, having unreal sex, and so much fun.
This has gone on for 3 years, and is still going
on. I rarely call her, never act clingy. She
tells me I'm one of the funniest guys she's ever
met, and I'm unexplainably cocky around her.
The point to this whole story, is that not until
I got your online book, did I even realize that I
did what I did. I did it without being cognitive
of what I was doing--and it worked like a charm. I
am ALWAYS the NICE guy, needy, clingy, sweet.
Always call, call when I say I'll call, show up
exactly when I said I'd show up, blah blah blah.
And all these years I couldn't figure out why this
totally hot, erotic, fantasy babe was calling me,
pursuing me, liking me, enjoying me. I wish I had
your book ten years ago. It took an extreme
situation for me to relax, not try too hard, be
myself, and act cocky and funny. Here I had been
leaving her wanting more, needing more, wondering
when I'd call, why I didn't call, but all the time
we are together, I'm so nice, funny, attentive,
but not clingy, needy. She actually believes that
I don't care if I ever see her again after every
time we're together. And I look at every time
we're together as our last--and a bonus for me.
Amazing stuff--I recommend EVERY MALE interested
in women get your book, read it, believe in it, DO
Thought you'd enjoy my story.
Yes, great story.
And now you know!
I'd comment, but your story was already waaaaay
past the "too long" limits.
You get it, and I get it... very nice work, and
I'm glad the puzzle has finally all come together
Hey, - Well Dave, you're gonna be proud of me.
Today, for the first time, I implemented what I've
read fully, and came out of it with two email
addresses. (I would've gotten numbers, but they
would be long distance, so I decided against it) I
went to this fall party and there was this thing
where we walked through the woods, so I was just
trying to be cocky and funny, and this girl and
her friend starting walking near me most of the
time, so I focused my cocky-ness upon them. One of
them said that I needed to be at the back of the
group, so I made even more of an effort to get in
front of them. I constantly pointed out that the
one girl (the one who I was interested in) was
running into branches and falling over logs. She
then at one point said something to the effect of
"I smell bad" and I quickly threw in that "I
wasn't going to say anything about it". She
laughed and said, "that was really nice." And then
kept laughing. I took a couple other opportunities
to bust her balls as well. Then I asked the guide
or whoever to take us around again, and she was
one of the people to immediately agree with me. We
basically walked next to each other the whole
time. Well everyone was getting ready to leave
and all, so I started digging through my pockets.
They asked what I was doing and I told them I was
looking for a piece of paper, so that I could
"expand my knowledge of people" and "get some more
friends". The one girl pointed out that I had
hands (good observation, huh?) and then went to
taking my hand, holding it in one and writing her
email address on it with the other. Then her
friend wanted to give me hers as well, so she took
my other hand and did the same. Then I left with
the basic idea of her seeming like she'd be a
"good friend". Man, I love your stuff, Dave!
Thanks a lot dude, J D in Indiana
Yeah, you're the man.
You know, I love it when guys write to me and
ask questions like:
"If I'm talking to two women, and I don't know
which one I like, what should I do? I don't want
to screw it up and offend one of them... and if it
doesn't work out with one of them it would be cool
to be able to switch to the other... so which one
should I get the email and number from?"
The ultimate way to handle two or three or more
women that are all beautiful and interesting is to
say "You know, you guys are EQUALLY DORKY, so
instead of just rejecting all of you, I'll let you
all give me your numbers, and maybe we can hang
out sometime... and I can teach you how to be cool
When you just relax, have fun, and approach the
situation casually, you can walk away with ALL of
the women's numbers.
And guess what?
Attractive women know OTHER attractive women.
If it doesn't work out with one, she'll know
Think big, act big, and you'll reap big
Nice work... thanks for the great story. It's
always great to hear about how these materials
work in "real" situations.
Bullseye! Your e-book is exactly right! It
reminds me of when I was flying for the Air Force
(Trust me Dave, NOBODY is cockier than a pilot).
My buddies and I would walk into a Dallas bar like
we owned the p lace (shoulders back, chin up, slow
walk). Guys would end up with some absolutely
gorgeous women before too long. Sometimes it only
took as much as catching a woman looking at you,
curling your finger in a "come hither" fashion and
you were off to the races. After reading your
book, I realize the attraction was all about body
language. We just DID it without thinking about
it or having a method. I had no idea there WAS a
method so I want to learn more (your DVDs are on
the way). Now I realize just about all the times
I've been wildly successful with women have to do
with cocky+funny and other techniques you mention.
"Oh! My hair is such a mess," she said. And I
replied, "Yeah, it is! I don't think I can be
seen with you!" I had to laugh when I read that
one. I actually used that quite a while ago. She
grinned, smacked me in the arm and said, "Shut
up!" --still grinning. Also, every time I've
failed miserably with a woman it is because of
something you recognized as "failure tactics."
Like you, I've been on both sides of the "dating
capabilities" fence and the women and life in
general are soooo much better on this side as an
alpha male. You've done a great job of focusing
your product on meeting women but readers should
know that you are selling a whole lot more than
just technique. You're selling a bit of freedom,
self-respect, and relaxation. Think about it.
what kind of lion would you rather be? The alpha
male that owns hundreds of square miles, never
goes hungry, and gets laid, or the juvenile male
who gets his ass kicked and has to hump a tree for
companionship? It's good to be the king! It's all
in the mind set.
I've got a question. My home town is pretty
small and so has "small town women looks" if you
know what I mean so I'm kind of stuck. Luckily,
there is a great city about 75 miles away that I'm
trying to move to. I go there pretty often
especially since I have family there. Until I
move, I probably won't be going to the city just
for "a cup of tea and some stimulating
conversation." But I figure on meeting my next
girlfriend from the big city I can say, "I'm
hanging out with my brother on Saturday. Maybe
afterwards you could meet me at Juan Valdez's cafe
for a cup of tea and stimulating conversation."
Sound like a plan? What other suggestions do you
have for a guy with high standards living in a
Thanks, SS Colorado
You know, as I read your email I thought about
that scene in Top Gun where they're in the bar,
and the guys are all in uniform picking up the
The arrogance and cocky attitudes coming from
Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer were the epitome of what
you're talking about.
It's interesting that you had that experience
in real life.
I've only known one guy that was a "Top Gun
Pilot" type of guy.
He was from San Diego, and he was actually one
of the instructors at the Top Gun school.
This guy was probably 5'4" tall... but he had
this attitude about him that said "I AM THE MAN".
He was always surrounded by women, of course.
To answer your question, I think you're on the
I've had dates with women that lived 2,500
miles away... no problem.
Instead of "maybe afterwards you could meet me"
you could say "I'm going to be in the area on
Sunday... so get me while the gettin is good...
and don't screw this up!".
The "maybe you could meet me" sounds weak.
You're not looking for approval, remember?
Impressive material, damn impressive. I went
out with someone yesterday and because she lives a
couple of hours away, we met halfway (hey I enjoy
the town we met in, it's a college town and I knew
if things d idn't work out--well) The C&F worked
like a charm, combined with the overly comfortable
and I'm choosing you. Even though I took her to
lunch, a movie and a bar, it was because I wanted
to do all these things, no wussy behavior. (Still
have a question though) At one point while we
were having lunch she pretended to clam-up and not
talk because I had teased her a little. So without
a beat, I look out pretending to talk to an
imaginary waitress and say, "Waitress, can I have
a new date please, this one's sour." I hear a guy
on a date a couple of tables away just lose it
laughing. The whole time I was working on the C&F
and the two-steps forward and one back. Then while
we shot pool, she kept saying things that were
sooooo easy to tie sexual innuendo to. We ended
up having a decent make out session in the pool
room. We'd be kissing and I'd just stop, push her
away and say, "You're just trying to break my
concentration," and then go shoot my turn. Even
though I wanted to charge ahead faster than I did,
I decided to work the skill set. Having the steps
you listed for advancing in the e-book are the
sequence I was working on and towards. Whew!
Impressive material, damn impressive.
My question is how do I not fall into the
Provider/boyfriend role you talk about when I'm
meeting women on-line from a distance and we meet
someplace. Seems kind of weird just to meet for
coffee if we're both traveling. Last question:
Only two paragraphs? Some of these guys are
writing War and Peace in the first paragraph to
meet that rule.
Last thing, just taking the time to smell her
shoulders and neck before even attempting to kiss
her is something I wish I had learned along time
ago. She had to fight to keep herself calm after
I had done that on and off for a few minutes in
the bar. Very enjoyable for the woman, me too.
The whole date was like playing a game of poker
where I knew every card she had and I could deal
any card I wanted whenever I wanted. Nice. J.T.
Your email is golden.
A fantastic example of how to behave with a
woman who is getting physical with you early on.
Kiss her, then push her away and accuse her of
trying to break your concentration.
You know, I'm trying to figure out what you're
asking me with the "How do I not fall into the
Provider/boyfriend role when meeting women online
from a distance?" question.
This sounds to me like a classic case of you
bringing your own limiting beliefs and views to
the situation... and making things difficult for
If you're meeting a woman someplace that is far
from where you and she live, then it's MORE LIKELY
that you're NOT going to wind up as boyfriend and
So just chill. Relax, and enjoy yourself.
If you think that you HAVE to act like a
boyfriend, then you're going to wind up becoming
one... with a woman you're not that interested in.
I had the ultimate C&F "zen moment" at the end
of my date last nite. When I first scheduled a
date with this girl, I'd been making some comments
about sandwiching her in between my 6 o'clock and
10 o'clock (quite literally, I am booked solid...
hot dates for weeks in advance, thanks to you and
C&F!), so she had better impress me in her
allotted time slot since the competition was so
fierce. Anyway, had a fun night of cocktails,
busting on her the whole time, keeping her on the
fine line between laughing her ass off and
"omigod-did-he-really-SAY-that?!?". We were saying
goodnight in the parking lot after, and the girl
literally attacked me. After making out w/ her
for a few minutes I pulled back and said, totally
deadpan, "Not bad... you were almost as good as
my 6 o'clock." At which point the girl
practically screamed in (sexual) frustration, "You
are SO DAMN COCKY!... and I LOVE IT!!!!!"
Straight from the proverbial horse's mouth. :-)
I'll let you guess what happened next.
Your material has put me in the "driver's seat"
in relationships for the first time in, like,
ever. I've now been on dates with 4 different
girls over the last 5 nights. Girls are fighting
over me and my friends think I'm a god... all
thanks to you and those three magic words, cocky
and funny. Wow. I'm on the verge of nominating
you as godfather for my dozens of imminent love
E. in Seattle
Dozens of imminent love children?
You might want to consider preventative
Sounds like you're on a rampage.
Isn't it amazing how we've all had women we are
interested in talk about other guys, but most of
us wouldn't DREAM of mentioning other women...
But, oh the effect it has... even when used in
jest and fun.
Oh, and if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself "DUDE! I really need to be
having four dates in five nights", then guess
And I'll tell you something.
If you're walking around right now and you have
no idea HOW to get four dates in five nights, then
that's only the tip of the iceberg.
I KNOW what it's like to not know how to meet
women... it sucks.
It's like a constant drag on your mind and
emotions. Everywhere you go, and everywhere you
look are more reminders of the fact that you don't
know how to attract women.
It really does suck.
Well, I spent many years of my life in that
same situation, and I finally got to the point
where I just couldn't stand it anymore.
It took me YEARS of trial and error, learning,
testing, trying things that didn't work, and
getting to know guys who were "naturals" with
women... but in the end I figured it out.
If you want to learn all of my very best ideas,
techniques, and personal strategies, then I'd
recommend that you check out my "Advanced Dating
Techniques" CD/DVD Program (the one that the guy
above with the 20 year old model mentioned in his
email). It's taken me literally YEARS to put all
of this great material together, and you can get
it all in about 12 hours of listening. Just go to:
If you've gone through my Advanced Dating
Techniques Program, and you'd like to learn more
specifics... like how to use Body Language to
attract women, or how to master the teasing
communication skill that I call "Cocky & Funny",
then go and check out my programs that are
designed to help you with those areas...
My program "Body Language For Success With
Women And Dating" is designed to teach you how to
create and build attraction with your body
language and voice tone ALONE. It's one of the
ultimate "weapons" in your ATTRACTION ARSENAL...
If you'd like more details, you can go get them
(plus watch some great video clips of the program)
And if you haven't downloaded my eBook "Double
Your Dating" and the three bonus booklets that
come along with it, then go do that RIGHT NOW. You
can download it and be reading it within a few
minutes. It's here:
And I'll talk to you soon.