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1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties .. (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers (3) : affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests ..schoolmates > b : an assurance of love ..
2 : warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion ..
3 a : the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration .. b (1) : a beloved person : darling —often used as a term of endearment (2) British —used as an informal term of address
4 a : unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1) : the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2) : brotherly concern for others b : a person's adoration of God
5 : a god or personification of love
6 : an amorous episode : love affair
7 : the sexual embrace : copulation
8 : a score of zero (as in tennis)
9 capitalized Christian Science : god
— at love : holding one's opponent scoreless in tennis
— in love : inspired by affection
Now, just what is the meaning "to Love"? How many meanings are there? Different types? I know there are different types. I have my own. The way I love my parents, my kids, my friends are all different. But what is it to truly Love another person that you would like to share your Life with?
I came to a conclusion a few wks ago that was not even at all shocking to me. That, I knew how to love my parents, siblings, my kids and friend but not the woman I Love. Really, how is that suppose to work? What dop really do to love our better halfs?
It goes far beyond just telling them you love them, kissing them on your way out to work and back in, spending quality time when you can with each other but there is even more to it then just that.
Where do we learn to love people from? Is it just natural to do so? Do we really learn it from our parents, family & friends? I couldn't even tell you when the last time I seen my parents hold hands, hug or kiss before my mother passed away. Makes me feel really empty that I can't remember that. I so wish I could go back to one of those days and see ti with my own eyes, them doing any of that.
Taking of things is all I believe I know how to do. Something that I came up with a few wks ago. It just doesn't include being able to Love another woman the way she is to be Loved. She says, Can you fix the this that and the other on my car or in the yard, I can handle that. But if she says, Can you Love me, I can truly say I don't know how after thinking on it that the last few wks.
The word "Love" is such a breath taking word. Filled with all kinds of emotions that goes far beyond what we think. It so differs from person to person and how it is to be used and expressed............................
