Nobody is really happy, and when society finally learns that true happiness is nothing but an illusion and hardship is a part of life that has to come along then every self help author and all therapists will finally know that THEY ARE WORTHLESS!! No wait, they Worth Defacit Disorder. Almost every female I have met in my entire life has screwed me over one way or another and I am finally to the point of which D.T.A.(Don't trust anybody) is a lifestyle to which society is going to have to grow accustom to in order to get on with their lives and just move on. Pain is pain and it is so by no other definition, pain can be a form of suffering, it is also a form of growing so that when they hit a painful bump in the road they can simply take a breath and move on. I hide all my pain in jokes, and sarcasim, it is the only way I know how to express my pain. I am sick to death of the fact that I am constantly mistreated,run over, kicked to the curb all because of the fact that they find it hard to trust any male. But, they don't see that whatever pain that they open to us they are casting the same effect on males and which it makes it hard to trust females, so it is with no doubt that we all take our turn in the great circle of pain. I am one of those guys that society would classify as they nice guy, someone always there to help support, always there to be the one thing a female needs to get through thier pain. But then when they have healed they move on as if anything that was said has ment nothing to them, sure you tell us we are perfect boyfriend material, but after we help you through your ordeal we suddenly become an afterthought. I am not saying that any male who has experienced this wants to be stud of the year, we just want to matter to someone as more than just friends,we want to be your rock that you need when you have a bad day, we want to be your superman when you need us. A fair chance is all that is wanted.