OK. He asked me to stay for our daughter til christmas. that much i agreed on but i informed him I was not putting on my ring, i am not taking orders, or answering to him for anything I do. I come and goes as I please and do what/who ever I want and I was still leaving after christmas in fact the divorce papers would be filed before then.I only kept a few clothes and my computer here at the house, the rest is at my mothers so I can just go. I wrote it down, he signed it and I put it in my dad's lock box today. FREEDOM IS AWESOME BABY!!!!