I am a Man who has been tied down, tied up, set free, and is ready for the next step. Sought after, tossed aside, remembered and rejected, over the years, I've grown strong-willed, determined, cautious, and maybe even a little bit callous. While I'm always soaking in what life teaches Me, the only sure thing I've managed to learn is that people need what they've always been accustomed to. W/we go through various cycles - growing, changing, merging, wondering how much of ourselves we really ought to give. However ultimately, W/we are still who W/we always were individually. So, what does this teach Me about relationships, and Myself? That I can be happy alone. However given that no one really wants to die alone, I need to look for someone else, like Me. So, intelligent with a proficiency in grammar, hard-working to a fault, yet fiercely family-oriented, extremely sensitive while taking everything with a grain of salt, but as a learning experience, empathetic to human frailty while recognizing shallow pettiness for what it really is, and a capacity to love unconditionally while maintaining a sense of self, and independence. I am passionate, but not about any one thing. I am open-minded, but I have My own firm opinions. Although I've always been an old soul, it was within the last year that I realized that it is time to embrace that side of Me. At this point in life, short of finding My soul mate, I am looking more for company and a sincere connection than a relationship or play partner. My name is Ryan, but for those sweet, presumably innocent little subs and baby girls who may read this, you may call Me "Sir," or "Mister Bedswell". I have been in this lifestyle for over a decade, and in that time, I have learned a great deal about Myself, as well as others. I started out in this lifestyle as strictly submissive, and I have been there, and done that. I'm sure there are new experiences out there that are just waiting for Me to come along, but I doubt any of them would surprise Me. I have grown significantly in both My love of submission, and My desire to become a more experienced Dominant. At this point in time, I have decided that I am not quite ready to give up on submission altogether. This is why I have selected "Switch." If you would like to know more, or you're interested in getting to know Me, please feel free to send Me a message. I have a secretarial position open for the right girl. Candidates must be addicted to a fast-paced, no-nonsense, adrenaline-filled environment. I promise, you'll never be bored.

"A woman is like a butterfly…If you want her to stay near you, but fly as she should, you must not brush the dust off her magical wings, nor control her essence in your hand…her beauty will be held only by a stillness and purity of heart." -Andrew Hawkes

"You can close your eyes to the things you don't want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you don't want to feel." -Johnny Depp

"...but he who aspires to be a hero (smiling) must drink brandy." -Boswell: Life of Johnson

Post script
If you contact Me, please use proper grammar and spelling. Present yourself in a way that exudes intelligence. i will not respond 2 u if u write lik dis

Regards,
Ryan