"Issues with Lounges and Their Owners/Staff Members/Members":
1.~My First job was in DT. everything was fine and dandy, until something happened and i got booted by one of the staff with mods booted me, i then thought it would be best to just resigned from my Bartender Job within Double Trouble. and i was just a member of the lounge, then i started feeling like i wasnt even welcomed anymore and my respect went away, so i stopped coming around, and well i continue to visit now but only whenever i feel like stopping in.
2. ~My Second Job was in Angels and Demons (also a name of a movie which is recently coming out), well i was joking around and the co owner took my joke personal (which is STUPID), and well then i got into a convo with the Owner and well words were being side and well my mods got taken away just cuz i cant be myself. it seems that i cant be myself within these lounges cuz the people are too stuck up, it dont matter if youve known them for a while or not, theres a freedome and if you take that away then they are just carring a mask over their bodies, i didnt like how any of these were handled and for this, I do believe ive been wrongfully accused or judged because of stuck ups and they never did give me another shot, and i figured to just leave then to cause a scene even though it was within The owners YIM.
~And because of this im not sure if i should stay in Fubar or not, the only reason why im still here now is because of a few people. I dont go into lounges anymore because of how they all acted towards me and im afraid of any of the new lounges and the people in them will act the same so i just simply stay out of them, if i chose to stay within fubar, i will probably make my own, once i get the fubucks for it and if it gets popular enough.
~When it comes down to Lounges, Rooms or Servers, that ive been to i ALWAYS follow the rules, i own my own server on a chatclient called Voodoochat. So im used to following rules, So when i got burned by the other Lounges well it really hurt me cuz it did happen to me before, and it hurt alot, and i dont go when im not wanted, granted i do every so often or whenever i feel like visiting again i will, but i will not be a regular.
~Any Comments are Welcomed here, just no hate ones. please use IWLAO/S, if your commenting about this issue.
My Lounge Configs:
The staff within the Lounge after i figure out whom to invite to it if anyone is interested send me a private message.
Name of Lounge:
~The Lounge Doesnt Have A Name Yet. So it hasnt been Created Yet. Once I Do, Everyone Will Know, Will Keep This Edited!~
Fubucks for Lounge:
100,000 (i want more fubucks then what i currently have before i start the lounge)
Yes My Lounge will end up Costing Others to enter/buying drinks/such/etc, and no not that much, its just to help keep the lounge open if you get to be a regular. Will explain more about this soon. i just hope everyone understands. its like donating or you your self going to bars and such, you have to pay to get drinks or to get in or something even though sometimes its free depending on what time, i again hope everyone understands. (those that dont have that much fubucks get in for free). the cost is unknown since there isnt a lounge right now, just planning it out.
Staff within the Lounge: (ALL Staff, if there is a staff postion that i am missing Private Message me or leave comment and i will add it to the list below)
Owner, Co Owner, Manager, Co Manger, Head Promoters, Promoters, Head Bartenders, Bartenders, Head Painters, Painters, Head Bully Makers, Bully Makers, Head Greeters, Greeters, Head Enforcers, Enforcers, Head DJs, DJs,Head HTML coders n such, HTML coders n such, ...
The Owner and the Co as well as the Heads, will be the Council of the Lounge. And they will be Weekly/Montly Meetings Each Month to keep the Lounge running smoothly!
The Rules:
The lounge will NOT be ~NSFW~ but you MUST have a default Picture in your profile. if you dont have one then you can ask for help on getting one.
You must respect everyone in the lounge. (Everyone)
You MUST treat others the way you wish to be treated. (Everyone)
There will be NO URL dropping unless it is Lounge stuff and with no other Lounge URLs is able to be dropped. (Everyone)
When getting mods, there will be a 2 week period before you get it and this is for ALL Staff, if you wish to be part of the staff, please contact the Owner of the lounge and say which posstion you wish. (Everyone)
Owner is abled to add or take away any rules he or she sets fit.
Owner is the ONLY one that can Ban Someone
Staff is the ONLY ones that can Boot Someone, And you need a reason, you need text to show what the person did, without Editing it
Any Problems that you have for running MY Lounge, Get the FUCK out!
Staff - if you mis use your mods they will get taken away. Example: you can NOT boot or ban anybody who hasnt done anything, meaning you cant Boot or Ban anybody for fun. there Must be a reason for the booting or Banning of a Staff Member, Member, Visitor.
Conquences of Breaking Rules:
1st count, warning - To stop or drop whatever issue is at hand.
2nd count, asking - to stop or drop whatever issue is at hand.
3rd count, forcing - the first two, to stop or drop whatever issue is at hand.
4th count, warning Boot - if the first three counts do not work use this if the issue isnt dropped by then.
5th count, and Final Boot/Ban - if the first four counts didnt work use this, if the issue isnt dropped.
6th count, Final Ban which will be Perminate Ban - use this when the issue and the person continues to return.
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Notes: The Owner will be making a website for the Lounge and everything.. like infor, rules, and such will be on it. Once everything is figured out and the website done and such, I will ask a friend to help me out with the fubucks to get the lounge, then i will need someone who does HTMLs n Coding to come in and fix it up for me, then get the Staff n such and then the lounge will truely open up. and then Everyone will be welcomed. its all in the works right now... and this planning will be in its own specail blog, As Soon As I Can!
~Comments are welcomed here, just no hate filled ones. Please Use MLCs, if your going to comment about this issue.
Okay This is within Trillian, trillian is an Instent Messenger Servous that allows afew other Messenger servers to be all in one area, the one i have is for YIM, MSN, AOL, and ICQ. i used to have icq but had to delete it, i dont have aol, but i do have MSN and YIM. the reason for me to get trillian is because of my MSN fuxing up. And thats why i have it, no idea why im explaing why maybe cuz of the Time stamps. LMAO, but anywho.
They guy that im talking to is an "old" friend, thats not really a friend anymore cuz of his abusiveness of how others are different in their own lifestyles, and no this isnt the first time this type of convo happened this confo happened May 6, 2009 around 10-11am (check time stamp, its in millitary time i think). This convo is the 2nd convo with him about how i should live my life, as you can see im stubbern, LMAO!
[09:19] guardianengel4ever: haveu learned anything bout the way the world works yet or not
[09:19] *** Auto-response sent to guardianengel4ever: I am currently away from the computer.
[10:08] millicent_the_catiulan: heh?
[10:17] guardianengel4ever: i asked if u ha
[10:17] guardianengel4ever: d learned anything in the time that has past
[10:18] guardianengel4ever: or not
[10:18] guardianengel4ever: ?
[10:19] millicent_the_catiulan: about what?
[10:19] guardianengel4ever: since we last spokeu learnedanything
[10:19] millicent_the_catiulan: about life, yeah alot of death
[10:20] guardianengel4ever: and what but having fun
[10:20] millicent_the_catiulan: as in sex?
[10:21] guardianengel4ever: yes
[10:21] guardianengel4ever: by ur reactioni tak that as a no
[10:22] millicent_the_catiulan: lmao
[10:23] guardianengel4ever: whenu do perhaps well find rsn to talk
[10:23] millicent_the_catiulan: rsn?
[10:24] guardianengel4ever: before when we last spoke u had no sense of fun or excitement in sucha nature, n byurwords now i doubt any change n such since.
[10:25] millicent_the_catiulan: LMAO i have fun, just im picky of who to have fun with
[10:25] guardianengel4ever: yes...n u once wanted to with me..
[10:25] guardianengel4ever: ur old buddy engel
[10:26] guardianengel4ever: but was too shy n stubborn
[10:26] millicent_the_catiulan: LMAO still shy n stubborn
[10:26] guardianengel4ever: that unfortunate
[10:26] guardianengel4ever: u n i coudlahad such fun
[10:26] millicent_the_catiulan: how so?
[10:29] guardianengel4ever: well u ko how i be..i enjoy play, n thus openingpple to more fun things n trying new things
[10:29] guardianengel4ever: yet u didnt wish to
[10:29] millicent_the_catiulan: its not who i am, engel
[10:29] guardianengel4ever: n thus why its no fun
[10:30] guardianengel4ever: cuz without funwe r simply dull and boring n thus the norm becomes regular dull n wewo
[10:30] millicent_the_catiulan: i am fun just when i chose to have fun
[10:30] guardianengel4ever: would fade away
[10:32] guardianengel4ever: so i see u wish to fade away in thedullness of the norm
[10:33] millicent_the_catiulan: LMAO
[10:33] guardianengel4ever: well u have haventchanged haveu now...point proven
[10:33] guardianengel4ever: thus the norm n dull
[10:35] millicent_the_catiulan: no i like being safe then sorry
[10:35] guardianengel4ever: pity...becuzsafeisntalwaysthe fun..safe often is boringn meaningless n routine
[10:36] millicent_the_catiulan: no im safe cuz i dont want to get pregnant by someone who doesnt love n such of me... and i dont want any stds... rather if its online or offline
[10:36] guardianengel4ever: oh yes onlinepregnancys r so common nowadays
[10:36] guardianengel4ever: lol
[10:36] millicent_the_catiulan: LMAO
[10:37] millicent_the_catiulan: you know what i ment
[10:37] guardianengel4ever: u said it...i interpretted..n so what hamr is a lil funonline when those thoughts rnt there or the fears ofwhat couldhappen in real not be there
[10:38] guardianengel4ever: correct? or am i wrongn now pplecan cum n sendit throug hhte online waves
[10:38] millicent_the_catiulan: i know the difference between online and offline. but its still not going to change my answer.
[10:39] guardianengel4ever: pity..u n i couldahad great fun
[10:39] guardianengel4ever: if only ud open ur eyes outside black and white
[10:39] millicent_the_catiulan: lmao you keep saying that
[10:39] guardianengel4ever: yes cuz im not the only one that said that...u did too before
[10:39] guardianengel4ever: jus using that same statement
[10:39] millicent_the_catiulan: thats funny i see color >.> not black and white... thats just interesting
[10:40] guardianengel4ever: i livein grey..the inbetween its more fun where there is nothing u cannot do, n things u can do if u like
[10:40] guardianengel4ever: but the colors r all simplywill be black..while grey will alwaysbeinbetween
[10:40] guardianengel4ever: so u be a color that will fade to black..
[10:40] guardianengel4ever: ill stay righthere in middle of darkness and light...
[10:41] guardianengel4ever: what a lil disenchanted lifethat mustbe u have
[10:41] millicent_the_catiulan: i live my morals and knows of coniquince
[10:42] guardianengel4ever: how boring
[10:43] millicent_the_catiulan: says you
[10:43] guardianengel4ever: says onewho has livedthat life and wanted to smother himself before he could live another dya in such repressed boredom
[10:44] guardianengel4ever: so yes...says me..sum1 who knows that path and wanted to simply scream everyday that he lived it for sumthn better
[10:45] millicent_the_catiulan: would rathter not go by that... and live my life the way i wish.
[10:46] guardianengel4ever: sounds boring withthe life u lived n iveheard of thus faru talk boutin past we spokeof...one if i could of i would probably bled to kni was actually alive
[10:48] millicent_the_catiulan: the only thing im going to agree on is that you cant accept the fact that i dont feel like living the life you do. and i refuse to change my mind.
[10:49] guardianengel4ever: as i said u havent changed..no more fun then a domesticated peice of livestock
[10:49] guardianengel4ever: waiting for slaughter
[10:50] millicent_the_catiulan: you have the black and white scale, you just dont like when other people change and not be like you.
[10:50] guardianengel4ever: lol cuz thepple like me never embracedthe black n white n livedin the grey cuz its the one place in the worrld without consequence, and freedom
[10:51] guardianengel4ever: ur the prude n priss luv
[10:51] millicent_the_catiulan: no not really
[10:52] guardianengel4ever: ur the shyone
[10:52] guardianengel4ever: the one that cant do anythingelse unless byur lil rules and religions..yes a prude
[10:52] guardianengel4ever: and priss
[10:52] guardianengel4ever: and cocktease and nothing more
[10:53] guardianengel4ever: mustbe like a dead fish in bed
[10:53] millicent_the_catiulan: LMAO
[10:53] millicent_the_catiulan: you know nothing about me
[10:54] guardianengel4ever: i kno enough bout ur personality to kno what u r likeotherwise..
[10:54] millicent_the_catiulan: and since i refuse to do anything with you, your being rude... and speaking of truths you have followed
[10:54] guardianengel4ever: n no rsn u have given to ever doubt such or define u otherwise
[10:54] guardianengel4ever: so yes...mustbe cobwebs downthereby now
[10:54] millicent_the_catiulan: engel, thats only in your head and what i show you
[10:54] millicent_the_catiulan: that doesnt mean that its true or not.
[10:55] guardianengel4ever: then prove it
[10:55] guardianengel4ever: yet we both kno u wontcuz u cant
[10:55] millicent_the_catiulan: i dont need to prove it to anybody of whom i am
[10:55] guardianengel4ever: so..point proven
[10:55] guardianengel4ever: exactly
[10:55] guardianengel4ever: point proven
[10:55] millicent_the_catiulan: no its called freedome of choise of a free willed person.
[10:55] guardianengel4ever: u were a priss ondamned
[10:56] guardianengel4ever: n haventchanged
[10:56] millicent_the_catiulan: thats what the statue of liberty means
[10:56] millicent_the_catiulan: i get to act and talk the way i wish
[10:56] millicent_the_catiulan: and being instaulting isnt always a good thing to do
[10:56] millicent_the_catiulan: this convo is finished.
[10:56] guardianengel4ever: lol yes n u live as if sumone that is happiness by normal slavery
[10:56] millicent_the_catiulan: end of story
[10:56] *** guardianengel4ever has been ignored.
Im very stubbern when it comes down to other people telling me how to live my life, heres a big hint, DONT DO IT!... I live my life the way i see fit not my others standpoints.. i dont even like it when my own family does it, why should i let someone else online or offline the pc, to tell me how to live my life? would you? so when i got done getting tired of being abused.. cuz thats what it is, i know what he was trying to pull and it wont work with me, it has happened before not only by him but by others, as soon as they "changed" my mind they would "rape" me, as i said, it has happened before. I live my life the way I SEE FIT, and if any of you rude or whatever people want to be rude and mean about how i do things then FUCK YOU. MY LIFE MY RULES! you dont like it... see the door!
btw i can rant and rave about this some more but, then you wont beable to read it.. besides i can always edit it. but i hope you get what my point is. happy readings...and yes commits are welcomed but rude ones, they will be deleted.
I really hate it when others start shit with me, that doesnt even involve them, nosey bitches, no offence or anything but yeah thats pretty much of what you are.. plus someone doing someone elses work for them also called kissing someone elses ass because of whatever that person did, when it IS in the wrong. this is what you dont do to me, because i dont do it to someone else.
This is your brain, this is your brain on drugs, This is what NOT to do with Millie, assuming shit from her, you wont like the outcome, and then kissing someone elses ass by doing of what the person that has done wrong needs to do for THEMSELVES! i tend to do these rantings about the wrongness of others. how would you like it if someone IMs or SB you about something like this?! would you feel the way i do and do something similar... or... do it an another way? well me, i dont care either way, i just hope that these people tend to do it the RIGHT way and NOT the WRONG way. (Two Wrongs Dont Make A Right).. anywho trying to get information such as going out with someone, out of me isnt always a good thing to do especailly in a way of a wrong doing to spred shit around, well guess what this is how i get even for the people who causes problems like this for example, as well as my other blogs that i have posted about certain people trying to do the same thing, NOT GOING TO FLY WITH ME.
I have only told two people of these convos, those that are involved and those i wanted insites about (and thus yes saddly involving them in it too, sorry). i hope you all learn from this. its rude to even assume anything from someone who just wants friends from sites since im TAKEN!, DONT DO THIS TO THE MILLIE SHE GETS EVEN!!!
Well heres the Convo, and remember, in shout box the beginning is on the bottom and the end is at the top! Parties involved are: Me, Vampy [Talked within Fubar SB], BiteMe [Talked within Fubar SB], Tiggs [Told in YIM], My Bro [told in YIM])
->~BiTe-Me~: heh okay or anybody else in that matter...
->~BiTe-Me~: i dont know, im tired of people doing this to me no matter who it is, i bet she wouldnt want someone come up to her and start asking questions like that or anybody else?! ... im just tired of the drama.. it needs to stop.
->~BiTe-Me~: the only people that ive known the convo to is jay and tigg.
->~BiTe-Me~: that was seriously wrong of vampy to do that, and i dont want it to happen again if it does, i will delete my account.
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...:
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: oh i will...
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: well maybe you should.. so you would get both answers instead of one. lol.
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: no i havent....not yet neways
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: lmao im just confused is all... but then again im normally am confused about some things. have you talked with tigg about this?
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: ok i wont bother u anymore...have a great day...ttyl
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: O.o
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: well when u two were talking in lounge it wasnt like friends....ill just say that
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: say wha a cute couple?
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: say wha?! what do you mean by a little more friendlier then normal? im soo lost now lmao.... plus i have no idea of how anybody feels for me so...
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: and it was rather cute....u both would in my opinion make a great couple
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: nope i just seen that u both were alittle more friendlier so just wondered thats all
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: plus im very lost at the moment... unless you know something i dont... >.>
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: kk thanks so much hun...sorry for bothering u
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: as far as i know tigg and i are just friends, he never shown anything deeper then that and neither have i... *shrugs*
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: i was just wondering thats all....wanted to know how deep it was for u both....nothing personal
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: tigg and i are just friends, why?
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: im sorry to bother u hun....but i was wondering what was going on with u and Tigg? if u dont mind me asking
->†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: hi... sure talk away...
†ÐJVàmpý†Â...: hey hun...when ya get online can i talk to u for a minute...its nothing bad
So Comments are welcome but please NO HATE COMMENTS, they will get deleted and i dont need the fuxin drama like this started one anyways... i started deleting from lists on yim...oh wait i already did started the deletion of some people from my YIM list... Hmms...